By Rocky209 - 15/05/2015 19:33 - United States - San Francisco
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Im not really into relationships, but a hang out buddy would be nice.
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That would be nice, kind anon :) <3
I would think you would maybe be able to squat and push the tampon out? Just sayin.
I know where you're coming from. my sister is the favorite of the family and can do no wrong where as my mother controlled my whole life. I had one friend growing up and that's because my mom helped raise her. If you need/want someone to talk to feel free to hit me up. I used to live on the west coast and miss it terribly.
You're 20. Just explain to your mom that you want your life to take a turn, that you want to experience life and that your not happy isolated. Hopefully she'll understand, if she doesn't, maybe talk to another family member so they'll help you. I can imagine how hard it is for you, but maybe she got hurt by the ones she loved and she's just trying to protect you. Good luck! :)
Sadly, ive explained my mom about this multiple times and just shuts me down. Other families understand where my situation but they really dont want to get on the bad side of my mom. She can be pretty violent.
Its sad to say that even other moms tell her that i need to get a life already but she shuts them off too tell them that im her daughter and that they have no right to tell her how to treat a "child" lol my mom's biggest mistake when she was 18 was being a young mom and being with an unfaithful man.
She has a faithful man now, but the past is the past and she should understand that i need to get out there. Thank you for the luck <3 im going to need much of it B)
OP, just putting it out there, friends are relationships. They are just a different type. If you want friends, you have to talk to others. Don't listen to your mom. She sounds like a bully, and she doesn't want you to grow up. Get out after graduation. You are old enough and don't have to follow her rules. If you have a job, find a new place to live. I would not tell her until you found one, and might be moving in. Need your own space and relationships are hard work regardless of the type. Eventually, you might find a romantic relationship that you want to be in someday. Try to teach your sister to have friends. She might not have any either, and she wants to feel better about not having any by pointing out you don't. Mom needs to let you grow up.
Absolutely right! Me and my older sister are planning to get an apartment out of town right after i graduate. Sucks i dont have a job but am striving through my allowance my grandmother gives me. Moving out will be the toughest thing to do so ill have to leave extremely early.
My little sister has friends. She just likes being cruel about it but whatever i guess.. your encouragement means so much to me and for that i thank you for making me feel motivated B) ill do my best to get out there and do something. I want to be a cartoon animator!
I'm 22 and single. Deal with it. It's worth waiting for 'the one' than try to seem 'normal' by getting a boyfriend as fast as possible. You'll get your time to shine.
All i want is a friend B) im too cool for relationships hehe
why are you worrying about this stuff at 20? Next time your sister says something horrid like this, just say "better to be alone than be a town bike like you"
Because it feels like everyday is getting staler and staler and it makes me sad :( thats a good one! Ill be sure to tell her that >:) thank you kindly!
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You're only 20! You have a lifetime ahead of you. Finish school, travel, meet people! A relationship won't magically make you a happier person. Have fun while you can :-)
It's ok OP, there's someone out there for you I'm sure :3