#30, it's different -- you're a dude! You can have hairy armpits and legs, and that would be OK -- it just doesn't work for girls.

I am very aware of my body hair and constantly shave my armpits and shower five times a week etc. My lifestyle very much works for a woman, and it's not my problem that they don't think so.

Whatever you say, a woman or a man are more likely to be noticed if they are dressed tastefully. I guess that the girl you hook up with share your taste in clothes. I agree that we should not judge people on their appearance but first impressions still matter. Your clothes send a message. Wearing sweatpants send the message that you don’t care much how you look like, which is fine as long as you’re happy with it. A girl is free to wear sweatpants all the time but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s not a flattering outfit.

CheeseHater - I thumbed you down, but only because of your username. Oh, and for your profile pic. And for your stupid comment where you seem to brag about your weed parties. So...pretty much for everything.

#45 I would never brag about smoking weed, what is there to brag about? I understand the rest. The reason I actually put that line in there was because I found it as useful information to the story.

50- what I found useful information is how you shower ONLY five times a week and you brag how you keep up with your hygienes

Showering too much isn't healthy, but okay. None of what I said was to brag, it was to explain. If you seriously think it's somehow more clean to shower seven times a week than it is five, you should check some science...

What I find useful is how you say you don't have any problem getting women. Seems to me that these women aren't all that hard to get in the first place. If you know what I mean. . .

Of course looks matter, but there's a limit to how much it should matter. If someone wears dirty clothes every day and has unkempt hair, that makes him/her unattractive for obvious reasons. But if someone wants to wear track pants because she likes them, or isn't superficial enough to obsess over fashion, anyone who gets turned off for that reason is too superficial to make a good husband.

I clearly stated you did not have to be a supermodel or fashionista. Meaning you don't have to know the ins and outs of fashion but at least put actual clothes on. Track pants when worn on a daily basis scream "I'm lazy!" I'm not superficial but I can at least throw on jeans and a nice shirt. Also it doesn't matter if you think it makes someone superficial to not be attracted to someone when they see you wearing track pants everyday. It's a fact that people judge you based on your appearance when they first see you. Your opinion of the fact is irrelevant. If they get to know you and you have a pleasant personality and they still judge you unkindly on your wardrobe THEN they are superficial. Wanting to look nice and/or be with someone that looks nice doesn't make you superficial at all. It doesn't mean you have to be obsessed either. Just simply means you have pride in yourself and care about the first impression you leave on people.

Taking pride in yourself and caring what other people think about your choice of pants are hardly mutually exclusive. There is a big different between going out and about unwashed and just wearing whatever you want to wear.