By Sad preggo - 24/01/2017 14:00

Today, my attention-seeking sister-in-law came to my 20 week ultrasound and afterward, without my knowledge, took it upon herself to announce the gender to Facebook and call the entire family, telling them "we're having a boy" nullifying any need for the announcement I had spent 4 weeks planning. FML
I agree, your life sucks 7 721
You deserved it 768

Same thing different taste

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<p>Make a post of your own announcing the baby's gender and saying that if they heard the baby's gender from anyone else, they violated your privacy and trust by going behind your back to do so.Also, cut her out of the loop as much as possible, and I'd keep an eye out for other actions like this or if she tries to guilt trip you about being mad. Based of just this information, she still sounds like a possible case of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I suggest reading about it and making your o

<p>OWn&nbsp;call, because Narcissists aren't good for kids to grow up around and can even be actively dangerous. Most people that are "attention seeking" have the predisposition for behavior that is dangerous to themselves and everyone around them.</p>

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And this is why we don't tell our siblings where we are.

racheal1000 13

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If you ever have a second kid, don't let her go to the 20 week ultrasound(if she tries to come change the appointment time last minute) then after the appointment before you make your announcement text her telling her the wrong gender of the baby. After she publicly announces the wrong gender on facebook comment on her post and say "actually the baby is" and play the whole thing off as a practical joke.

I hope she isn't going to be invited to the baby shower. She violated your privacy and trust.

Kill her she is so mean I would have killed her instantly

sepnurds 0

Those parties are a waste of money and time anyways, focus on your baby and having a healthy pregnancy

Those parties are a waste of money and time anyways, focus on your baby and having a healthy pregnancy

skinnychick123 18

oh no that's terrible!! congrats on the baby though :)

guess What? you didn't have to let her in