By veryunluckygirl - 16/07/2015 21:04 - United States - Winchester

Today, my boyfriend didn't break up with me, but his mom did. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 592
You deserved it 2 234

veryunluckygirl tells us more.

veryunluckygirl 19

OP here. Let me explain a bit. I knew it take more than 300 letters to explain everything. He's 17. It was not his idea at all. We've figured out how to make this work out. But this is how it went, she told him that we could only be friends (and still hang out though) but if we continued dating she was going to call my mom and tell her that she knows that we've been having sex. My mom would have believed her so we decided to just tell his family that we are "just friends" we're still dating right now. But once he turns 18 it's not her decision to not let him leave anymore. In the past 9 months she said that she doesn't hate me. That it was just the "environment I live in" which I find extremely idiotic. I mean I live in a good home and with good people. But it's whatever. Once he's 18 he probably won't have anything to do with his parents though.

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gracehi 31

It's okay. Your mom will leave a bag of flaming dog shit on his porch.

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Familyof3 5

I had that happen except for it was the older sister, and I was pregnant and told to abort. 14 months later we have a beautiful little girl, we re still together and the family is a lot better

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veryunluckygirl 19

I'm glad you didn't abort and that they lightened up on you :)

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LunaaBluee 27

Yea I was raised in a Mexican home where every day I was called a worthless piece of trash every single day.. I know the feels. I don't give a **** what anyone says about me anymore at least.

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Emmonaut 6

This has happened to me before and he was 22. I laughed because it's absolutely pathetic and childish. You'll find someone a million times better for you!

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annahmaechen 11

How old are you that would make it so bad for you to have sex? Why would your parents be so against you having sex if you are of age and with this boy? I'd understand if you were a lot younger than him that they'd be disappointed but if you have been in a relationship with him they should understand it was bound to happen

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veryunluckygirl 19

I'm 15 and he just turned 17 it's not so much of the sex that they'd care about. It's the getting pregnant part

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lovelockdown23 23

now I see why your parents would be upset. not to the point of kicking you out though. Bad situation. Is he going off to college after he graduates? Is he going to move out if not?

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snazzymcwho 21

ooooo.....15? I hope you both are very aware of the consent laws in your state. I'd hate for him to get in trouble.

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doodlesdork 7

Ohhh you were making it sound that you were already 18 and he was the one that was underage.....

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Meechiepie 13

@OP Do either of you have work yet? Even a part time job would be okay, until you are able to get full time. It sounds like you both need to get out, if his parents are that emotionally abusive, and your mom would kick you out so readily, you guys need to start saving up for somewhere to stay in case you guys end up in dire straights. Basement suites are -sometimes- cheaper than apartments (lots of people aren't aware of the worth of their property) and usually have utilities or cable or maybe even internet included, not to mention are usually more spacious, worth looking into at least. In the meantime though does he have any friends whose parents would be okay to take him in? It sounds like he really needs to get out of that toxic space. I am really glad to see that none of the comments are harping the fact that you are young, or saying that you won't be together long anyways. I tend to see a lot of comments like that when teenagers post about their shitty situations. (I started dating my husband when I was 16, I'm 25 in September) Young love can last, so don't let anyone harsh you on that. In any case I wish the pair of you luck!

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veryunluckygirl 19

I plan on staying with him for a long time. And I have a part time job, it's the only place that'll hire me right now until I'm 16

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ArtemisRwill 22

Sorry OP. Had something similar happen to me when I was 17. Except it was my boyfriends mom breaking up with my mom. Hope the guy is okay. Controlling parents can be tough to deal with. Good luck to both of you.

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BLT10009 4

i know that feel bro. you'll find a real man some day.

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akkai 7

I'm sorry op.... if he was that much of a wuss I think it's good for you that you got out of that relationship.

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TallMist 32

Based on the follow up, I'm pretty certain they're still dating.

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worldclassrager 39

Well that's pretty unfortunate...at least you have it all figured out

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iadtgrad07 6

that's totally happened to me before!

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