By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom
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hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha
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Was that really his way of breaking up with you?! Some kind of joke or something on his part? Hard to believe. Keep limiting your partners, though. No matter what anyone says, realistically speaking guys like it when their lady is relatively innocent or has little partners. Try and figure out what went wrong, keep striving for the Forever One, rather than the Next One.
im really sorry OP but see you shouldnt have given him the only thing you have, you should have waited until you were sure he is the right one :( i hope you find someone who truly loves you
Real men don't care how many partners you had, insecure boys who don't know how to pleasure a woman are the ones wanting "innocent" women or with fewer partners
wow, that's terrible! First relationships are practically practice, anyway, though.
17 months is a bit specific...usually after a year you count in years. You sound a bit stalkerish to me...
You are definitely single, or never really been in love. Ass.
#7, #11: Friends with benefits don't say "I love you" #14: Saying "a year" when it means "two weeks short of two years" doesn't precisely convey the situation.
.....how can this happen?
#3 is right on the money this guy is a absolute douche dont try change him you wont you will be glad this happened eventually because you will be able to pick guys like him if it wasnt him that did this to you it would have happened eventually from someone else just take it as a lesson learnt and be thankful its done and dusted
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:( that makes me sad.
What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.