There was more to it as to why he got me fired. The main reason he said I was always busy...but he was the one with TWO jobs. I only had one full-time job. The other reason he got me fired was because I went out to celebrate my birthday...with my GIRL friends...without him..

Oh, there's no need to explain anything to me, I'm just a poorly informed internet guy. That said, we didn't know any of the intricacies of your relationship until you explained that he was batshit crazy. Although I am sorry for you losing your job, the silver lining is that your ex's actions have resulted in you no longer being in such a toxic relationship, so that's a positive no? Anyway, hopefully, this imposed... sabbatical is a good one, and that when you do find a new job, your batteries have been recharged. Also, hopefully, when you find yourself in a new relationship, I hope its with somebody who won't make it seemingly as much work as the last guy. :)

#38, there is an easy solution to being miserable in a relationship because the other person works too much. You ask if your partner would make time for you. If they won't, break up. If they truly can't, and you can't handle waiting until they can, break up. There's absolutely no situation where getting them fired is an acceptable response -- that's just emotionally and economically abusive, and narcissistic af. And after the poster's explanation, it's pretty clear that he was trying to isolate her. She's so lucky she got out before she was trapped in an abusive relationship.