By HRomero - 17/10/2016 13:17 - United States - New York
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Hello all. OP here. First of all thanks everyone for your kind words. I am single and it's gonna stay like that for a while. There were a few signs that he was a little crazy, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Even now that we aren't together, he continues to be crazy. He even put my phone number on social media. So the only option I had was to get rid of ALL social media. The good thing is, I've been catching up on some sleep now that I'm jobless, but I won't be jobless forever. Word of advice...if you get this gut feeling your significant other is crazy..run cause you might lose your job. Take care y'all.
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Smart move on his part, from too little time spent with you to no time at all spent with you, plus everyone you know thinking he's an overly controlling psycho.
Now fill it up. The first one on the list should be 'break up with bf'
Time to fire him as a boyfriend. He has problems if he has to get you fired to spend more time with you.
My ex did the same thing, glad you dumped the loser.
Hello all. OP here. First of all thanks everyone for your kind words. I am single and it's gonna stay like that for a while. There were a few signs that he was a little crazy, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Even now that we aren't together, he continues to be crazy. He even put my phone number on social media. So the only option I had was to get rid of ALL social media. The good thing is, I've been catching up on some sleep now that I'm jobless, but I won't be jobless forever. Word of advice...if you get this gut feeling your significant other is crazy..run cause you might lose your job. Take care y'all.
Yeah, how did he do it? Did he call up and complain or talk shit about you or something? I'm sorry this happened. He sounds like a psycho. Good luck in the job hunt.
He emailed my boss that I hate her and I want her to die from an email address under my name. I explained to my boss that he wasn't me. Even let her search though my phone. She said it was my problem that I have a crazy ex boyfriend. And there goes my job.
He gave out your phone number? Dear god I'm so sorry you had to go through that
your old boss is a dick
If he continues to be obsessive, you have grounds to get a restraining order. The email he sent your boss constitutes a death threat. You can generate a police report based on that. Then follow it up with the fact that he publically released your personal phone number and encouraged others to join him in harassing you (this can count as both harassment and incitement). Even if the reports don't ultimately result in charges being brought, the restraining order will still stand for as long as you choose to renew it (I think the renewal is every 6 months). I mean, it sounds like you already handled it by cutting him off completely. But just in case he doesn't back off or gets worse, you have legal options. Good luck.
So she flat out decided that she didn't want to employ you because you had a crazy ex? Maybe it's best to walk away from that work situation AND boyfriend. I don't want to psycho babble you to death, but those kinda both sound like abusive situations. People who let themselves ignore warning signs in romance do the same in other relationships too. Take care of yourself OP, and make sure you aren't letting yourself get hurt by ANYBODY.
I'm with #78 on this one. He's clearly emotionally abusive and unstable. Get a restraining order. In many states having a restraining order out against you by a partner will also prevent him from buying a gun (or sometimes force him to surrender it if he owns one). I really hope you're safe and it all blows over.
What the ****?! That's despicable! That actually makes me so mad. It sucks your boss wouldn't believe you either! It's not your fault your ex is crazy. I'm not sure you could have predicted for him to do that. Can you get the police involved? I'd feel so helpless. That's awful. I'm so sorry OP :(
No kidding. That boss sounds rotten as well. It's not OP's fault her boyfriend was an abusive, contolling scumbag. A good boss would have accepted the explanation of someone else pulling this potentially criminal stunt and taken steps to ensure the boyfriend was the one punished for it. Good luck finding a new job, OP.
Threat him with police if he continues bothering u by putting ur phone number in social media site or anything else. He's an ass and it's good u got rid of him
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Tell him you're too busy looking for a job to spend time with him. If he is still your boyfriend, that is.
He's so clingy, Velcro would tell him to loosen up.