By brokenhearted - 05/12/2012 11:29 - Ireland - Dublin

Today, my boyfriend sent me so many nice texts that he made me fall in love with him that little bit more. It turns out he was sweetening me up before telling me he cheated on me the night before. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 178
You deserved it 2 614

Same thing different taste

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Well, he didn't break it to you in song, in front of 100 other people, that's a start. But the sweetening deal makes him seem a little cowardly, especially IF he told you he cheated by text. Anyway, here's to to hoping things shape of for you, one way or another, OP. We're here for you at least.

Show him some lovin with a swift kick to the balls

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Fk your boyfriend and any guy or girl like him. They deserve the worst in life.

While I strongly disapprove of cheating on your partner, at least your boyfriend had the guts and the decency to confess immediately.

owlthea 1

Same exact thing happened to me... Only I wasn't given the bad news through text

Special_Psycho 8

Hey, there's is one bright thing about this: He was honest about it and didn't try to hide it. So if my girlfriend had cheated on me romantically speaking I'd forgive her, but if it was sexual then I'd dump her (unless it was with another person born a female).

rycmurray 5

Well the way some guys are now, at least he even had any balls to tell you. Not saying you should forgive him or anything, dump his ass haha!

nkklllll 4

This whole "if they loved you they wouldn't have cheated" crap really pisses me off. That's a lie people tell themselves to make it easier to make a decision on whether or not to dump somebody. Here's the deal, maybe he does love her, maybe he doesn't, we don't know that and can't judge him on his feelings for her. All we can say is this: He's a dumbass for cheating, but he manned up to his mistake, hopefully because he realized how bad it was. And here's ANOTHER thing, if he didn't want to salvage the relationship, didn't love her, or whatever, why did he tell her at all? A lot more contributes to someone cheating on their significant other than just "(s)he's a douche, never loved him/her."

Sounds like the words of a former cheater yourself...it's good that you can forgive yourself for your crime against the one you "love" #95, I hope they didn't forgive you. Cheaters can burn in hell. People who violate the trust of someone they're in relationships with to satisfy their lust for what they feel is lacking with the person they are *committed* to, then feel guilty and confess later, can go eat shit.

Babe i love you, i wanna be with you forever but i cant keep my d*ck in my pants. Makes sense. Dump the a**hole!!