Who cares if he looks at ****. And no he's not being a hypocrite for being mad if it was her, because if she was sending nudes to other guys while being in a relationship that's wrong. Masturbating to **** or pictures is definitely not wrong or cheating. He has a right to be mad if it was her, but it wasn't. I can't believe you guys are blaming the guy for looking at a damn picture

I believe you should be mad at him for assuming all naked people of the same color skin look alike.

how did it get online, then? and then noticed that it was you?

Is he taking naked photos of you??

Looking at **** to **********? Which is completely normal and is done by men and women both across the globe. Nothing wrong with it.

This is lacking some context. Does the photo have OP's name falsely attached to it? Or does the photo just look like her? Or is it an actual photo of her she gave to a prior SO that they spread without consent? Where and how the OP's boyfriend matters too. Was he asking for pictures of girls or did it show up at random on a site he frequents? Did one of the other people that received send it to him saying it was a picture of OP? Was he on a site that illegally distributes images of people? I personally don't think that **** should be taboo in a relationship as long as everyone in the relationship is okay with it, and the **** viewing rate isn't such that it is unhealthy or giving badly warped views of sex. However, if he was on a site that illegally distributes images of people in sexual or nude states, it's a problem. Masturbation to legally distributed pornographic materials on the other hand, is normal. Saying he can't view and ********** to legally distributed material (that isn't material produced by women he solicits photos from) is just as dumb as the idea that a woman who uses a ***** or vibrator to ********** is cheating on her SO. Can't have one be okay and not the other, as long as both acts are equally uninvolved on an emotional level. As for everyone saying that the BF didn't have the right to get mad because he was presumably looking for ****, you are ignoring something. He thought it was OP in the photo. As in, that she had been distributing sexual images of herself to people for either money or as sexual propositions to those people. In the first case, it would have meant she worked in the sex or **** trade and never told him. In the second, it would be a form of cheating. Both would be a violation of the expectations of the relationship as far as he knew them. If the FML were from the BF's view, people would be jumping on OP for cheating on her BF over the Internet. As it stands, the FML is lacking some important details to determine what is going on in full in this situation. All we know from the post is that OP's BF *thought* she was cheating on him, seems to have confronted her, and that there are either images of her being distributed illegally or that images that look like her are being distributed. We don't even know how the BF expressed his anger, which makes it hard to determine whether he overreacted or performed any actions that violations of his relationship with OP.

you should get back at him by sending me a naked photo.......just saying!

hmm.... who do you think she would be sending it too...?

first of all why was he looking for naked girls online? and I should think its orettyveasy to prove it wasnt you.