By LoveIsOneSided - 18/08/2015 04:39 - United States - Framingham
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Hi! I'm the OP of this. I lost my leg because of a clumsy accident. In 2013 I tripped walking into my kitchen, and cut my foot on a piece of tile (we were redoing the floor, and only had half the room done). I ended up in the hospital for about a week with an infection. Two weeks after getting out of the hospital, I suddenly got a fever that spiked so quickly, and got so high, I couldn't remember my own name. I was in the hospital that time for 84 days. This second infection got out of control. To this day, they don't know why or technically what it was (on record it's a severe case of cellulitis), but within twelve days of being admitted, I started getting small blisters from my toes to my knee. At thirty days, I was running a fever almost every night (fine during the day), and had lost feeling in half my leg. By sixty days, the blisters had ruptured and I had bigger blisters in some areas, and holes in other areas. They did a surgery where they basically shaved my skin off, thinking that would stop the blistering. Which it did. Once they did that, I was able to go home. But what should have taken a few weeks to heal, took almost a year. I had infections off and on throughout the year, and was on antibiotics at least once a month, every month. In December of 2014, I got a cut on that same leg. Within a week, it was blistered up again. I was back in the hospital, and back on heavy antibiotics. At this point, I had massive nerve damage in the leg, and couldn't feel most of; what I could feel was painful. I'm 28, and there were days when I couldn't walk, because every step felt like I was splitting my skin apart. They never got these blisters under control. The blistering never went past my knee. There was almost a line where they stopped, around my leg. I've had cuts on other parts of my body without an issue, so we don't why this happened or what technically caused it. When they couldn't get the blistering under control, they upped the antibiotics. When I started to show signs of kidney failure, we discussed options. I was able to keep my knee, but lost the leg a few inches below it. I don't have a prosthetic yet, and for the most part I'm okay with it. It's not pain free, but it's not like it was before. One of my brothers, from the minute I woke up from surgery, has been calling me Peggy (my name is not even close lol), but it's all in fun. To keep my spirits up. I'm not overweight, not diabetic and was never really sick until this. It just happened. I guess sometimes things just happen.
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Are you certain that is the reason behind him not inviting you?
I'm sorry to here about your leg. what happened
If your leg was amputated due to poor diet and exercise induced diabetes(aka lazyness induced diabetes) then i would say you deserve it.
If you have a prosthetic, it isn't obvious shy of maybe a crutch or cane. You could be in sitting photos tastefully cropping out the knees down. And if you were my daughter, I would want you there, you're alive from whatever claimed the leg! You could have been dead and not shown up. Sorry your dad is a bigger turdball than the ones dung beetles roll around....
I'm sorry to say this but ur dad is a total dick. I would've went either way tbh. Sorry man.
That is just rough
Buy a fake leg from the Halloween decorations, and show up during the ceremony and throw it at his head.
The irony is so fierce, it'll make him bawl in front of all the wedding guests!
That's a blow to the self esteem right there. FYL.
Not at all condoning your dad, but I knew a guy who had an amputated leg and when he wore pants anyone who didn't know it never noticed. Be proud of it though, even if your dad won't. I really admired the guy I knew because he joked with people that would otherwise be uncomfortable and even took his senior pictures with all 6 of the prosthetic legs he had.
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If he didn't want any guests to feel uncomfortable he shouldn't have showed up either. I'm sure they don't want a giant dick in their pictures.
Well it's only logical to cut off one of his legs