You're an idiot if you marry someone who's goal in life is to drink himself into a stupor. Unless he cleans himself up and gets help in some way, things are only going to get worse. Please don't have children with this man because their lives will be difficult, living with an alocholic father and an enabling mother. You might consider going to Al-Anon or a Codependents Anonymous group because the fact you tolerate his behavior shows that you have low self-esteem or are codependent. At very least, you're an enabler.

and this is why you should not get married.

soo that's what I would do.

sounds like my fiancé.. I understand.. just think, this is the rest of your life.. get out now before it costs you hundreds of dollars..

seems like a cool guy

move on honey he is not the one clearly a child and you don't want to be a mom yet do you?

he's a WINNER. seriously, keep him

****** awesome idea

That's brilliant, your fiancé is nothing short of a genius. I must keep that in mind.

that's called planning ahead