By failure - 28/10/2013 00:41 - United States - Shreveport

Today, my fiancée of 2 years and mother of my son, who is also pregnant with our second son, commented on how lucky two friends getting married were to have found each other. I said that we're just as lucky. She responded, "No. They actually love each other." FML
I agree, your life sucks 50 626
You deserved it 4 626

Same thing different taste

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The first line of your FML kind of explained why dude.... engaged two years with a second kid on the way? Kind of a bad sign.

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dannnngthatsux 19

Hopefully your name relates to something else. You 2 need to clear this up and if needed, up the date on the marriage. Or if needed cut each other loose. Marriage without love can be hell.

raeepressley 12

Hopefully it's just the hormones talking!

I don't think marriage is the answer to everything and I do believe people can stay together and have kids without being married, but she obviously doesn't feel this way. It's kind of your fault that you didn't know this about her. Marry her and make her feel loved.

I doubt that is the case, she probably just got pregnant and he asked her to marry him because of this and she said yes because she was scared... I've seen many of my friends go into this situation and the woman leaves them when she realizes she really doesn't want to be with them. One of my friends had this happen to him and was engaged for five years to her before she left him saying she never truly loved him... Best choice is to talk with her and see what's going on... But sadly, more likely then not, they will probably break up. No point being in a relationship, even if you have a kid, if you don't love each other.

Than what the hell is she doing with you? Estooooopit

I'm sorry OP... But you should probably just leave her. I had a friend who was engaged for five years and had a child with her. Before she left him and said she never loved him...

saraitkddh 47

really sorry OP. Why on earth would a person stay with someone and have two children with him if she does not love him!

SuperMew 22

My sister is pregnant and everything she says is really passive-aggressive or irritable. You can't make jokes or she will bite your head off, even if she is not part of the conversation. She has been making her husband's life a living hell and she is only three months along. The excuse "well I feel like shit" just doesn't fly in my house and she is very unpleasant to be around. She then gets offended when people say, "Back off." So I think, personally, that she might have been a bitch just to be a bitch. Talk to he about it, explain you love her, and try to stick it out until a few months after the first kid is born, when she is feeling a lot better.

Fiancee of 2 years AND she's pregnant, no wonder she made that comment. You need to get that ring on her finger and make her feel loved!

I know I might sound dumb, but the wording of this FML makes me confused. Can someone dumb it down for me?

this guy has a fiancee. They have been engaged for 2 whole years and they have a second kid coming. The fiancee (girl) brought up that a friend is getting married. The guy very unwisely said "they are lucky." The woman (who has been engaged for 2 years!) said, "no, they love each other" basically implying that she isn't loved

It seems to me that she is alittle butt-hurt about the fact that two people she knows are getting married and even though you are both 'engaged', she is having a second child to you and you aren't actually married yet. Some women are really funny like that - they don't need just a ring, they need a ring, dress, veil and vows. If you haven't made wedding plans yet, perhaps you should start.