By failure - 28/10/2013 00:41 - United States - Shreveport

Today, my fiancée of 2 years and mother of my son, who is also pregnant with our second son, commented on how lucky two friends getting married were to have found each other. I said that we're just as lucky. She responded, "No. They actually love each other." FML
I agree, your life sucks 50 626
You deserved it 4 626

Same thing different taste

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The first line of your FML kind of explained why dude.... engaged two years with a second kid on the way? Kind of a bad sign.

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Why does she feel like y'all have to have a second child if she doesn't even love you? Moreover, why even get married (beyond the kids)? This kind of stuff is some of the reason for why the divorce rate is so high.

I always wonder what motivates some people to click on "you deserved it" under a post like this ...

addioty 19
Thejackel79 9

Do not forget the trolls, and people who misclick.

Maybe she doesn't feel loved by you, not the other way round? Maybe try to think of how you may have upset or neglected her. Also keep in mind that emotions are a lot stronger during pregnancy, so it might have been a very minor thing like not asking her how she feels. Good luck to you and your family!

Maybe she's looking for the next step ;) MARRIAGE

Treveyon58 2

And this makes what she said Okay?

Am I missing something?! Doesn't fiancé/ fiancée mean they are getting married? Why do people keep saying, "maybe she wants to get married"?

dannnngthatsux 19

Maybe it's her that's dragging their feet? If she doesn't love him and he loves her, that would explain the comment and long engagement.

StompinOnCrayons 15

Well what the **** ? I'm hoping it's just the hormones, but that was pretty hurtful.

Quit knocking her up and walk her down the bloody isle.

So I get thumbed down...really?? Ok, "Today, my fiancée of 2 years and mother of my son, who is also pregnant with our second son, commented on how lucky two friends getting married were to have found each other. I said that we're just as lucky. She responded, "No. They actually love each other." FML" Why would you walk her down the aisle if she doesn't love you...? That's not a marriage, it just becomes an obligation at that point. Hell even a liability, because you're no longer married to your wife, you're just married to the mother of your children. So #40 makes no sense.

Treveyon58 2

I agree with you,but the problem with mist people is that they see it as being OP's fault for being engaged for 2 years or the give the woman sympathy because she's pregnant and has hormones racing. If a guy said this you can bet people would be saying don't marry him.

Still, love is love. You should never get in an actual commitment if it's not shared...

I think it's a totally valid assumtion to say that part of the reasoning behind her remark has to do with the fact they've been engaged for two years. She could have been (poorly) trying to imply that OP doesn't love her because he hasn't married her yet, not necessarily that she doesn't love him.

I agree. If my boyfriend proposed to me and two years later we still weren't married, I'd be having serious doubts about his affections as well.

dannnngthatsux 19

Had no one else thought that it might be her dragging her feet?

Iguanadon 14

or maybe they can't afford a wedding?

picklemonger 13

Well, she's pregnant and hormonal and probably not happy about the TWO YEAR ENGAGEMENT while others are actually getting married.