By Anonymous - 15/06/2013 21:58 - Australia - Richmond

Today, my future sister-in-law cancelled my invitation to her and my brother's wedding. Her reason was that I was incredibly rude to announce my pregnancy to my family at a time like this, because it took all the attention away from her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 56 741
You deserved it 5 284

Same thing different taste

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If your brother doesn't have the balls to overrule her on this one, there's a serious issue.

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Don't listen to her, it's YOUR brother.

caralily 10

If OP announced a reasonable time before the wedding (10 daysish), sure, her life sucks and her brother should maybe reconsider marrying the bridezilla. However, I feel like OP could have deserved it if the announcement was a week or less before the wedding. Making such an announcement less than a week before or a few days after is very incredibly rude because it does steal quite a bit of the attention from the bride. (Who only, hopefully, gets one wedding and has been planning it for probably her entire life). Sure, when you get pregnant it's awesome and a big thing in your life, but if you find out very close to your brother's wedding, you can be nice to your sister-in-law and wait about a week to tell people because you get 9+ months of attention and have likely already had your wedding day. My mom's younger sister announced her engagement at my mom's wedding reception (she pressured the guy because she was jealous) and my mom was so mad that she didn't attend that sister's wedding and laughed when her sister later got a divorce.

laufinobsver 3

The females in your family are the reason bridezillas even exist. Not Everything Is About The Bride! There is another half to the couple getting married and they matter just as much as the whiny girl that thinks the world revolves around her. And who cares if someone announces something good happening to them during 'your week (Could of sworn weddings are 1 day or 2 if you count the rehearsal) to shine'? The only thing I would find a bit f'ed up is people knowingly planning theirs next to yours. Stop playing into stupid, dated gender roles

_NeoQueen_ 7

this is ridiculous! she found out she was pregnant, and was happy and excited and so wanted to share it with the rest of the family. It's not like she decided to have HER wedding on the same day which would make people choose which one to attend...

F*** that! Like it or not I'd be there.

she needs help to uninvite you to a big day in your brothers life and you told your family she will get her glory and so she needs to suck it up and get over herself

GrapeJuice67 17

Wow. And if I guess right, this is probably only a few weeks before the wedding, maybe a month or two? I mean they're only invites currently SO it's not like you're stealing her thunder on the big day. What the heck is wrong with her?

Tell her she just jealous coz no one in their right mind would want to have a kid with her oh and also say that she should never consider getting a rescue dog coz it would only run back to the pound

Sounds like a bitch. Tell your brother not to marry her