By trifioso - 08/01/2014 13:56 - United States
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I am the OP, and I thank those of you who offered support to me, and my children. For the record: my husband and I divorced a month ago. I asked him REPEATEDLY what the status of his relationship was with his roommate, and he looked me right in the eye every time and denied they were involved. Two weeks after the divorce was granted in court, he told the kids the truth. FML only accepts stories that start with "today...." so yes, I fudged that bit a little. They have been together for two years. We were still in marriage counseling when they started up. And no, I didn't know. Seriously. I didn't, When someone you have known and loved for 20 years tell you something, you tend to believe it. Until you find out your whole life was a lie, that is.
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It sucks to find out this way. I hope all goes well for you and I hope you get the help that you will really need after finding this out.
maybe daddy wants to furtilize other mommies
LightningLadyy
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Could be, but you never know...
I'm sorry but this is cowardly ... He shouldn't use the kids, but just tell you to your face
Gay, yes. Sensitive to the feelings of his wife, no.
sounds more like hes bi or had one hell of a coverup of his real thoughts.
that must have been an akward dinner...
You must not have been that close then. I can't imagine spending 19 years with someone and not seeing them for who they really are. Nobody can be that good of an actor to not give off signs. 8- People don't turn gay, they are born that way. But if you would abandon your father like that you don't deserve him.
I'm sorry for you but maybe you mad hi realize he's gay. You might not have given him enough pleasure in bed and he likes anal and sucking dick better
What a great way to start off the new year :)
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27- there hasn't been any definitive evidence saying whether it's hard wired or a conscious choice so shut up like u kno more than all and to disown or distance urself from someone who destroyed or messed up a family like that sounds pretty reasonable sry if u never had a dad or something making u feel this way but think about every angle of someones comment before passing judgement
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Did you kids say:"We like having two dads like you, daddy. Mom's the bitch anyways." Now, that, would be FML squared!
They must have been older to be able to go home themselves and tell you. But that is terrible OP, it's hard for the kids to deal with (parents will divorce, dad will suddenly be with a man) and they have to tell you and see you break down! (considering you were either in denial or really didn't know) No one deserves a partner like that