By Anonymous - 23/03/2013 17:30 - Germany - K?ln

Today, my husband showed up late to my mother's funeral. He swaggered in, happily finishing off a half-eaten taco. His excuse for why he was so cheerful: "She was an in-law, honey." Good to know I married a piece of shit in disguise. FML
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Same thing different taste

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It always makes me sad to see how little respect some people pay to their spouse and spouse's family.

There's nothing else to be said here than seriously reconsider you relationship with him, if not leae him altogether. Your mother, a huge part of your childhood and life, a true bond and a shoulder to hold yourself up on, passed away. His reaction was to non-chalantly turn up late, with a spring in his step, almost relishing her death as a side-dish for his taco and fully aware of the contrast between his cheerfulness and douchebaggery, and this day of mourning. I don't think he has a shred of humanity or decency, and probably not a lot of love for you or your family for him to be able to do that. Get rid of this asshole.

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connersmom 4

I'm very sorry for ur lose keep ur head up and ditch ur husband if he can't be there for u when u are hurting he's a donkey and needs mental help bad.

I feel he couldve been more sympathetic towards how YOU feel and maybekeep the happiness down but since we dont kno what the relationship was between the in law and the husband, i cant judge. People seem to think that death excuses past behaviors...suddenly after death its all so sad. Perhaps he was just being honest about an in law that didnt treat him well, i dont know. I am sorry that he wasnt synpathetic the way u wanted though.

Wealthyparrot 9

Hey, if your family was awful to him and spent all their time questioning whether you should have married him, he has every reason to be happy. Of course, if he's going to be happy at your mothers funeral, your family was right to question.

pretty sure his asshole tendencies would of showed up a lot earlier than your mother's passing. either way, sorry for your loss op!

Even if he didn't care for her, she was still your mother & if he cares for you at all, he would show some respect for both of you & be there for you in your time of need. That would be grounds for divorce in my book. I wouldn't stay with someone like that. I'm sorry for your loss, OP.

Jesus tapdancing Christ! I thought that was just a stereotype you heard on those stupid joke apps that you uninstalled cuz you were a few years too mature to laugh at them.

KyokoSakuraChan 15

What a scumbag. Before you divorce, ruin one of his funerals.

"She was an in-law, honey." Yeah, HIS in-law. I hope you talked to that douche about his behavior.