By kayt240 - 04/05/2011 05:41 - Canada

Today, my husband told me that he's letting his mother move in with us. He told her it was alright without even consulting me first. I hate my mother-in-law so much that I'm contemplating divorce rather than living with her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 47 388
You deserved it 8 085

Same thing different taste

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Her husband is the one making important decisions without even discussing them with her, which shows just how committed he is.

I hope you hate her for a good reason, otherwise you're just being irrational. FYL anyway mothers-in-law are such a pain most of the times. :(

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RedPillSucks 31

Over the internet? Who are you, Chuck Norris?

60, I don't think the mother in law could be too bad, it's probably just the fact that wives don't like their husbands mothers in general. Im not saying this is the case for everyone, but a lot do.

birds_fml 7

I have a couple things for the OP: first, you don't have to divorce your husband to move out. You can move out while staying married. Get a little studio apartment or something. Second, you might want to divorce him anyways, if he does crap like this without consulting you regularly. That's very disrespectful.

Grow a pair and tell him NO. Not just no, HELL NO.

OP you need to sit down with your husband without shouting and discuss this. You need to tell him it is unacceptable to not even ask you first and ask him how you are both going to solve these problems. Firstly the problem of him not consulting things with you first. It sounds like if he continues to behave like this you don't want your future with him, so you need to tell him how you feel. Secondly the problem of your mother-in-law moving in. Maybe you can come to some agreement, that you will give it a trial time and if you are still not happy he has to accept that she can't live there. Or come to some mid ground like his mother in law will live close by or that she only lives in the house 3 days a week. If there is such an issue you need to calmly explain to him that you will be moving out if this goes ahead (you can move out without having to divorce your husband). Just communicate.

shows how much the relationship means to you.... typical woman

shadow1917 0

not all of us are like that douche-bag there's lots of MEN that do the same damn thing.

people get divorved waaay too easily these days. i strongly think that and i am 14

muchagente 5

hey, you're 14? then surely you know a lot about these things.

I, too, think people get divorved too often these days. The divorve rate is out of control! Heck, just one divorve is too many. Wait...what's a divorVe?

I believe I am the only one who can announce a 'win'

Jojo_luvs_fml 0

You should really sit down with this man. Just go up front... hELL NO!