I just went through a similar breakup. She was pretty emotionally and mentally abusive and had a serious self harm problem. On too of that she and her mother suffer from the same disorders. She carved my initials into her hip because I broke up with her (she has always been the one to call it off before). Stay strong OP and do what you need to do. I had an officer with me when I went to get my stuff back, so there's no shame in doing the same.

Should have done it right there. If your mother is anything like mine, the second she raised her hand, momma bear will attack. Or call the cops. Remember though, don't hit back, its sad but the cops almost always take the female's side

Well, what did you say???

Somehow I'm laughing at this but feel really really bad... That is so unfortunate.

Reading your FML, I understand why you want to break up with her. What I don't understand is why you stayed in a relationship with someone like this long enough for you Mom to think it was headed for marriage.

You could get her to agree to some hardcore sex, tie her up, then put a lock on in such a way that she can reach the lock, give her the key to the lock inside an ice cube, and then just leave, you'll have time.

Do it in a public place so she can't make a scene. Then leave.

Story of my life as well!

Man up and get it over with. Don't just beat around the bush because your scared, sure she'll be mad, but it hurts way more when you prolong a relationship you want to end.

Or he's exaggerating, did anyone think about that?