Well played, "mom", well played.

To be fair, she might've been drunk.

That's selfish of her.

Isn't that a good thing? Being adopted means they CHOSE you. It means you were wanted by a family who cares. Not like people like me who are born into abusive houses without an escape. You should be lucky you have what you do

wait how did she do it? did she like say it in the end like " oh yeah.. before I forget it.. you are adopted" like.. how? and how did people react?

She's not your mom anymore

OP here. My wedding was 3 weeks ago. Thanks for your kind comments, but no my mom wasn't drunk (she never drinks). I had a long conversation with her and my dad. Turns out she couldn't keep it to herself any longer. I'm no longer mad at her since she told me the whole story. Both my parents always told me a lot about their deceased best friend whom I'm named after. I'm actually that friend's daughter and my family took me in when both my biological parents died in a car accident when I was 3 months old. In a way, I know my biological parents through the memories of my adoptive parents. I've never suspected a thing since I have two little brothers and I kind of look like my mom. Telling me and everyone I love at my wedding was a way for her to honor her dear friend and 'share' that special moment in my life with her.

I think being adopted is something to be happy about, a family chose you to love and care for.. but on that note maybe a wedding isn't a good time to bring up the whole "btw your adopted...congrats on the wedding"