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Well, at least he didn't admit to having a 2-yr-old child that you heretofore knew nothing about. However, not trusting you upfront from day one with the news of him already being a father doesn't bode well though.
I see, but the real question is: Are you sure you're not the mother? Hmmmm?
I wonder if he had to tell you now before he got hit with child support.
Time to leave. Not because of the son, because of the lie. If he's willing and able to disregard his son and hide his existence, then either his son doesn't matter to him or you don't. Either way, you don't need a man like that fathering your children.
I agree that the deception was wrong, but from one sentence, you don't know for a fact that he disregarded his son. He could have been making secret child support payments and furtive visits. Not likely I know, but my point is don't assume.
the disregard comes in denying the child's existence completely for the entire relationship
I'm pretty sure she'd know if the child was hers or not because you'd have a bun in your oven for 9 months unless you believe in stork delivery.
Not good, but it could be worse. He could have been your husband of eight years telling you he has a four year old son.
She doesn’t actually say when he found out. It could have been recent if the mother didn’t tell him and now needs support
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Well, at least he didn't admit to having a 2-yr-old child that you heretofore knew nothing about. However, not trusting you upfront from day one with the news of him already being a father doesn't bode well though.
Generally secret children are not ideal for a relationship. Just FYI.