143- moral:Concerned with the principles of right and wrong behavior and the goodness or badness of human behavior. Just thought I'd define that for you. Since you for some reason seem to not understand what morals are. I believe that it is wrong to look at others when in a relationship, you believe that it is right. Therefore, our morals are different. Drop the venom-laced argument and move on. (And being that you have no knowledge of my relationship on any level, I suggest you keep it out of this. It's really not your business.)

It's like a Menu. Free to look, but if you want more they're going to have to charge. I think he prefers to look. Hey it's free!

147- I'm going to have to agree with 143 on this. If you are still a teenager who thinks they are 'in love' then your argument is invalid. Why don't you get back to me in a few years when you are married and have been in the same relationship for 3+ years instead of a childhood fling. Eventually you will grow up and experience the real world. Until then have fun with your delusional 'morals'.

147- I know the definition of "moral", but thank you for showing me how skilled you are at using dictionary.com. The key word in your retaliation is that you "believe" looking constitutes a moral corruption, while many people do not view it as something that is inherently wrong, but instead view it as human nature/a minor annoyance (at best). No one has questioned your morals, while here you are questioning ours; that is where I believe you took the argument a tad too far. As far as minding my own business about your relationship, if you don't want people stating their opinion on it, don't post about it on the Internet.

At the risk of stepping into a three-way (woohoo!) catfight (uh oh)... 147: Look up the word "limerence," because it might be the thing other than in which you are with your boyfriend if you feel no physical attraction to anyone else. Frankly, 147, it's naive, arrogant, and insulting of you to imply that others are immoral for even noticing attractive people outside of their relationship. Sure, you're entitled to your opinion, but that doesn't mean your opinion isn't objectively bullshit. The same perspective ("looking at others is cheating") is exactly the kind of ****** up mindset that's used to justify locking women up in their homes and forcing them to cover their faces. Moreover, it displays a fundamental lack of trust for your partner, and trust is essential to respect. You're young. You'll learn. But it's gonna happen the hard way if you aren't prepared to discover that your BF finds other girls attractive.

151- Thank you so much for bringing age into this in your arguement earlier...Why, you're only 21! You were a teenager only two small years ago. It's nice to know you go around judging people as soon as you can. And did I question your morals? No I did not. I just stated mine were different from most peoples on this site. Which they are. Am I saying one is wrong, one is right? Nope. I'm not. Please stop speaking for the population at large. I know so many people who have a problem with their significant other looking at the opposite sex, and those who don't have a problem with it. It differs from person to person, how you were raised, and again, morals. And you can state your opinion about my relationship, but don't go out on a limb assuming it's all childish and whatnot. You know what's childish? Thinking that because you've been in a relationship for a few years, you have any more of a grasp on what a relationship is about than I do. YOU come back to ME when you've been married your entire life, when after 30-40 years, you can still look at your husband and say you love him as much as you did the first day you realized you wanted him in your life. Neither of us are in any position to be talking about "real" relationships. 150-I'm sorry, my age means that my argument is invalid? You are in no position to be judging whose argument is valid or invalid...And, I have to comment on this, as you're being quite "delusional" yourself. 3+ years? Unless you've been married almost your whole life to someone, you had better not be saying 3+ years. That's no time at all to be married/in a relationship. Almost all marriages make it past the three year mark. But what about the 10, or 20 year mark? 30, maybe? It's all a matter of perspective, and you should really stop forcing your views on me by saying my argument is invalid. Just because you don't agree with it, doesn't mean it's invalid. Love is not limited or marked by age, nor opinion. Love is what each person makes it to be.

152- I really wish people would stop saying I said anything about other peoples opinions being "immoral." I NEVER did. I said my morals are different. Let that be the end of that. Just because my morals differ, does not mean I'm calling them immoral. And you saying that my opinion is bullshit, is your opinion. Which, you're entitled to. Also, let's not bring religion into this. It's completely off topic. When did I ever say I don't trust my boyfriend? I trust him more than anyone. I'm saying. As a person. As a female who is happy in her relationship. I do not look at other men. That is my opinion. It's part of my morals as far as relationships go. Am I saying he has to follow those same morals? No. All I'm saying is, I have morals.Morals differ from person to person.

153- I am not claiming to be a wise and experienced relationship guru, because I do recognize that my relationship is "new" relative to those who have been together for decades. However my husband and I are mature enough to realize that we are not the most attractive people in the entire world, and therefore we understand that we may glance at other attractive people of the opposite sex. You did not overtly state that you feel we (as in the people who hold the same opinion as me on this thread) are immoral, but you have definitely implied that you feel we are in the wrong and/or below you concerning our morality. And again, I realize that my relationship is new compared to those people who have been married for what seems like forever, but there are differences between you and I: I am married, I'm a working adult, and I do have more life and relational experience than you do. I don't offer my opinion often to those who are older than me because I am humble and I respect that they have experienced more than I have- but since you are younger and you are seeing things through rose-colored glasses, I felt comfortable offering my viewpoint on your situation.

Also, 152- Be careful next time you step into a cat-fight... You might lose another eye. ;)

156-Well that is purely your husband and your own opinion of what "attractive" is. I happen to be dating someone who is what my opinion of extremely attractive is. What would make me mature? To say, "My boyfriend does not fit my definition of attractive. Therefore, it's okay for me to look at other men." That would be lying. Because he fits my opinion of attractiveness. (And for the record, even if he wasn't what I consider to be attractive, I still wouldn't be looking. It's just NOT who I am. It goes against my morals. And for you to suggest I was "implying" your morals are below mine? How many times did I say, our morals differ? You stated yours, I stated mine. Yet somehow I'm boasting that mine are above yours.) And you're only half a decade older than me. You have a job, and you wear a ring and bear a commitment. On some levels, that may make you more experienced than me, but does it make you right to tell me how my life is? I'm not infatuated, or seeing things through "rose-colored glasses" I've been through a lot with my boyfriend, and he's been there with me through some serious hardships. Why continue talking about how inexperienced I am? Do you want me to say, "Gee, 156 is right! I DON'T know about love or relationships, because I'm young and stupid, and obviously young couples NEVER make it into marriage. Oh no. I should wait until I join the "real world" to start falling in love. There's definitely not a single couple out there who met in say middle school or high school and are still together, years and years later. Wow, thank goodness for FML for people to tell me how wrong I am." ? I live in the same world as you. I was just born a few years later. Get off your high horse, please. My opinion doesn't mean any less, nor does my relationship, because I'm young.