That's ok, it means that you won't have to look after either of them when they get too old to look after themselves. You're worth something, even if they aren't. Just remember though.. it's hard to do the single-parent thing while getting a new place to live, etc.. it get's expensive fast because it's like starting over your whole life. They might be afraid of that, and once things settle down a bit, they'll want you around more. It's also a matter of the one-child laws; one parent will be permitted to have another child.. IF.. the other parent has you. Once that's been been determined, things will settle down, because you'll have both parents, plus potentialy, l an extra set eventually, and a brother or sister. Also.. during a divorce, you have to assume that both parents are insane for awhile. It's a big deal to them that as the child, you will feel, but not in the same way. For you, they are choosing to split, for them, their lives are over and have to be restarted.. an entire lifetime leading to a failure... they certainly didn't intend to marry and divorce like this. It can be very traumatic and confusing.. it's definately not a simple thing to go through. Personally, I developed heart problems and digestive problems due to the stress I was going through. Of course, I was dumped and ended up homeless for about 6 months, so that's kind of an extreme example, but it definately tears you up and makes it hard to be concerned about everyone's feelings.

I'm sorry to here that. Just know you are always wanted by someone. Even by God.

ooh. >.

I'll keep you ....

Blame Chinese culture for the people there being assholes, no one should have to live in that hell.

Yo shut the **** up disgruntledyouth you're sucha gay pig so shut the **** up cuz you don't know anything about chinese culture you bitch

that really sucks..sorry for ya

friends are like potatoes - if u eat them they die :(

aww...i'm unwanted also, except my parents are not divorced. which is worse..?

lol day sucks...