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By Anonymous - 21/09/2022 09:50
By Anonymous - 21/09/2022 09:50
Hey everyone! OP here. Just registered my account.Thank you so much for your comments.. Yes I know it's good that they care... but it also was quite embarassing... As to better handcuffs, I've learnt my lesson.. No more cheap deals from ebay!
Well, then, explain it to us. And don't leave out the good parts!!!
at least they cared enough to make sure it wasn't cuts. they take it to far sometimes but it is definitely better than not caring. I bet you will laugh about it some day.
There are fur lined cuffs just for this purpose.
Like others said, the inconvenience and embarrassment are unfortunate, but really it’s great that they care - there are lots of people who need help, and it’s better to be over-cautious rather than looking back and wishing you did more for someone after it’s too late. That said, now that you know the cuffs draw attention to you, you may try large bangles or wide bracelets in the future. I doubt those would get a second thought beyond “look at her pretty jewelry.” There are other options for bondage-type scenarios that are less likely to leave bruises, such as silk ties, wider cuffs made of leather or another material with loops for securing them with handcuffs, special ways to tie cloth that minimizes bruising, etc. YMMV. Not really speaking from experience on the recommendations as I haven’t really explored that stuff and don’t bruise easily anyway, but I read a lot and pick stuff up. You can too - you’ll probably find lots of good recommendations online generally or on reddit. Good luck! And on the bright side, maybe your professors who were involved will be embarrassed enough to give you an Easy A.
Speaking with around a quarter century of experience.. simple soft leather cuffs are the very best. Stockroom com carries very nice ones (those are the ones I found to be the best to hold with NO marks left behind) and I expect you can find them a bit cheaper elsewhere as well. Silk and other hard fabrics will still leave marks. You want at least 1.5-2" of width to spread out the pressure when bound. Good luck! =)
Yes it is nice to know that people care, but if you’re in college you’re an adult… so maybe you can do what you want.
Hey everyone! OP here. Just registered my account.Thank you so much for your comments.. Yes I know it's good that they care... but it also was quite embarassing... As to better handcuffs, I've learnt my lesson.. No more cheap deals from ebay!
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Like others said, the inconvenience and embarrassment are unfortunate, but really it’s great that they care - there are lots of people who need help, and it’s better to be over-cautious rather than looking back and wishing you did more for someone after it’s too late. That said, now that you know the cuffs draw attention to you, you may try large bangles or wide bracelets in the future. I doubt those would get a second thought beyond “look at her pretty jewelry.” There are other options for bondage-type scenarios that are less likely to leave bruises, such as silk ties, wider cuffs made of leather or another material with loops for securing them with handcuffs, special ways to tie cloth that minimizes bruising, etc. YMMV. Not really speaking from experience on the recommendations as I haven’t really explored that stuff and don’t bruise easily anyway, but I read a lot and pick stuff up. You can too - you’ll probably find lots of good recommendations online generally or on reddit. Good luck! And on the bright side, maybe your professors who were involved will be embarrassed enough to give you an Easy A.
at least they cared enough to make sure it wasn't cuts. they take it to far sometimes but it is definitely better than not caring. I bet you will laugh about it some day.