A new skate of mind

By Middle Age Divorced Dad - 28/04/2023 00:52 - Canada - Stittsville

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Today, at 3 a.m., I was woken by my teenage daughter and friends skateboarding in front of the house in their bikinis. After last year's early morning adventures ended with the police calling me, I'd convinced her the rules are different for girls and boys. This morning the best I could do was get them to wear helmets. FML
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Middle Age Divorced Dad tells us more.

OP here replying to Nikki - The world is different for sons and daughters. Last summer, when she was 13, she snuck out in the middle of the night and walked 5km to make out with her boyfriend on lawn of a toys'r us. The police called me at 3 in the morning to come pick her up. (my previous FML) As much as I try and treat my sons and daughters the same, it really isn't safe for a young girl to be walking alone in the middle of the night. That's also why I couldn't really demand her and her friends come in, since her older brothers would go skate boarding in the middle of the night. At least she was out right outside our house so I knew she was safe.

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Nikki 17

You deserve it for trying to teach her that the rules are different for boys

Why is this story under "Spicy"? Where's the "spice"? It's not like they were doing the Javanese Broomstick or the Reverse Cowgirl!

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Why is this story under "Spicy"? Where's the "spice"? It's not like they were doing the Javanese Broomstick or the Reverse Cowgirl!

They probably edited out the part where the cops stayed in their cruisers and jerked off instead of breaking up the bikini teens' skateboarding party:

Nikki 17

You deserve it for trying to teach her that the rules are different for boys

OP here replying to Nikki - The world is different for sons and daughters. Last summer, when she was 13, she snuck out in the middle of the night and walked 5km to make out with her boyfriend on lawn of a toys'r us. The police called me at 3 in the morning to come pick her up. (my previous FML) As much as I try and treat my sons and daughters the same, it really isn't safe for a young girl to be walking alone in the middle of the night. That's also why I couldn't really demand her and her friends come in, since her older brothers would go skate boarding in the middle of the night. At least she was out right outside our house so I knew she was safe.

Statistically speaking, that's just not true. Men outnumber women by a LARGE margin, like ******* huge, when it comes to being victims of violent crimes committed by strangers. Offcourse, we are being more protective of women, so we have no idea of knowing whether the difference would still be so big if we treated them equally. That being said, we do live in a society where we are more protective of women, so your daughter on her nightly outing will have the neighborhood aunties keeping an eye out, your son won't, bystanders will be more likely to jump in at the sign of trouble for your daughter, not your son, she will be more likely to get any type of aid over your son and will be considerably more safe then your son. Offcourse she's more at risk then him for rape (and that is what we are actually worried about), but stranger rape is the rarest type of rape (at about 7% of all rapes) and is on top of that typically by a serial rapists, so in most cases you would be aware of an increased risk of danger. You know when you should be worried about your daughter getting sexually assaulted? Not when she's running around at night: when she's having a sleep over at her friend's house. Outside? She's much safer then your son.

Nikki 17

There’s your problem, you should’ve treated your son the way you planned to treat your daughter. It’s not safe for anyone to walk the streets at 3am, boys or girls. You let your son do whatever he wanted and now you get to be worried about your daughter for years. YDI