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It might be time to have a big talk and move on
OP, you are not really his girlfriend, you may be his disguise to the rest of the world of his true sexuality. It’s terrible to find out you have been used, but better now than later.
I’m sorry you misidentified who the “friend” was in this triangle. Most guys don’t turn down sex for months. That should set off alarm bells!
It’s a shame he wasn’t honest with you. Depending on where you live or on his family situation, it might be problematic or even dangerous for him to come out. Please don’t out him out of anger or hurt. Not that you don’t have to right to be angry and hurt and to tell him so in private. You do.
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OP, you are not really his girlfriend, you may be his disguise to the rest of the world of his true sexuality. It’s terrible to find out you have been used, but better now than later.
It might be time to have a big talk and move on