Addict

By Anonymous - 23/09/2013 02:56 - United States - San Francisco

Today, my mother asked me if she could borrow $200. Being the lovely daughter I am, I gave her my bank card to withdraw it herself. She gambled it away and maxed my bank account out. I had $1500 saved. FML
I agree, your life sucks 45 759
You deserved it 20 871

Same thing different taste

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I'm sorry to hear. but please get her to seek help as pathological gambling can be as debilitating as using drugs. Take care xx

thegravytrain 6

1) Inform her that she needs to pay you back. Also, understand it likely isn't going to happen. 2) Show her those free casino games on iphones or whatever, that are cheap and free. She can play out her gambling addiction, without actually going bankrupt. Simple, huh? I have a family member who wasted thousands until someone just got him a smartphone with the casino app and said "here. play this. itll cost you a couple bucks a month instead of hundreds or thousands" and he just uses that and pays like $2.99 for more chips if hes out, that lasts him at least a week or two. 3) Understand it's not being a good daughter to enable someone's addiction. If you didn't know, that sucks. But she needs help, not gambling money

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That's horrible, OP! But never give your bank card to anyone! Especially if you had any idea your mom is a gambler and would be capable of doing something like this.

aliciagentry 8

Its mostly kids stealing from parents not parents stealing from kids

Since you agree to give her $200 say that she stole the remaining $1300.

simplyej 0

I'm sorry she stole from you like that, but YDI for just giving up your bank card. You should at least ask how she plans to use it, and even if she says something reasonable, she could (and would) be lying, so then, rather than giving her the card, withdraw the amount that she asked for.

Well people say money is the root of all evil.

THIS IS WHY WE CANT HAVE NICE THINGS!! Seriously, never give money away. You give away clothes, food, help move someone's car and give the guy at the garage the money, or otherwise give a check with the allotted amount and what it's for in the Note space! Can't trust anyone with anything, ESPECIALLY with money. Not even your own mother.

damnn. I'm sorry to hear that. You might want to suggest to your mom, to get some help with her gambling addiction. That's if she has one?

What the hell were you thinking? I know you want to try to be a loving and trusting daughter, but I would never give my bank card to ANYONE.

She can't do that. SHE OWES YOU NOW... MUAHAHAHAHA!!!!!