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By Her - 05/12/2016 17:01 - Canada - Montréal

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Today, the guy I've been dating for 3 months told me he doesn't know how he feels about me because he's not excited when we meet and doesn't miss me when we don't text for a while. He decided to tell me this while we were laying in bed right after having sex for the first time. FML
I agree, your life sucks 13 222
You deserved it 1 228

Same thing different taste

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He really sucks for waiting until AFTER sex to say that. I really hope you don't stay with someone like that. That's just really disrespecting you.

Maybe he hoped that things would change after having sex, but realized after that he still felt the same? Not an excuse, but a possible explanation.

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That was the longest one night stand.... Ever!

Guess bad sex will make you rethink the relationship quickly, lol.

Superbaker123 14

Sounds like he just wanted to get in your pants, OP. Sorry, that really sucks.

Sorry he said it so bluntly, but it sounds like he was just looking for sex and once he got it it was not very good for him....He doesn't seem to want you to get attached to him, by the way he worded things. Find someone that will appreciate your conversational and bedroom skills!

sorry op but you were the latest conquest..if that came out after sex ..he just wanted sex..

OMG I'm so sorry for you. That is my girlfriends biggest fear that I would do that to her. I can sorta understand how you are feeling and I'm so sorry I really am. Not all men are like him.

it's sucks I'm sure, I know the feeling. Mine did that to me after 2 months.... but 4 years later he proposed and now we are about to celebrate our 1st year anniversary. Life changes and people feelings do also. cheer up!

Well of course he waited until after you had sex to tell you, he's a guy, that's what they do. Probably wanted to see if the way you looked under your clothes was worth his time. **** that guy.

For all those saying break up what if the guy has been emotionally unhinged from previous relationships and this is the reason why he doesn't feel those things if she breaks up with him it will just confirm in his mind that partners he dates are not worth the emotions

WeirdUS 29

It's not her responsibility just because he was hurt previously and you can't let something from a previous relationship follow you like that if it does that's something you have to get over with on your own