Could you read my version of a comment. I do believe you are kind. It's just people who leave notes are really on their own side. Can do no wrong and just had to " move on"

I said that above and got thumbs down. Remember its always the mans fault. My x wife played me admitted it and has custody of my son an i pay her child support. No matter what it's always the mans fault

He left behind 3 KIDS! If OP is a crazy mother he is a terrible father for leaving 3 kids with a crazy person! Think before you post please. And I don't think he'd say "good times" to a crazy, bitch wife.

Still cant judge off only a simple fml post. No details at all..

All we know is the husband abandoned his family. That in itself is significant. What man would just abandon his kids like that?

Just because he left a note like that doesn't mean he won't be a part of his kids life. And I wasn't actually saying the woman was crazy.... Some people... I was saying we simply read her fml post we don't know anything surrounding their said life. So for a person to just start ragging the dude and labeling him a d bag is not right. I'm not saying its not shitty situation I'm saying think about what u don't know.

Even if she were a crazy bitch, a real man should have the guts to break up face to face. Not with a little note. Especially when you'd just been sleeping beside her. There's no excuse.

Even if she's crazy his ass should have found that out before they got married n had children. He should have grown some balls n let her know its not working

This happens in a lot of cases. Such as he gas cancer or any issues and distances himself from the family. Lot of people do that. When i was deployed and came home a lot of people did that because they were messed up in the head one way or another. once they got help it was ok.

Well said

He has no balls. He just LEFT. At least discuss things if you feel your marriage is going downhill, not just surprise the other spouse with a note. The kids will ask where their dad is and one day he is there, the next he is gone with no warning. That will mess up his kids for a looong time, possibly a lifetime of trust issues he dumped on his kids.

What's with all the negative comments? I already agrees it was the wrong way to go about it, and that it was pretty much spineless, I'm just trying to get you people to understand you know absolutely nothing about the situation. U say he should have talked to her about it. Maybe he has talked to her maybe she didn't take him serious I'm just saying dont jump to conclusions though it does look very bad.