And as for the "Now send me one of you so I can prove to all of my friends that you're real." thing, it just proves that he has a bad social life, and due to his unattractiveness, he hasn't managed to get a girlfriend till now, that is why nobody believes him when he tells them about OP, so he just wants to prove it to them by showing them her picture. FHL again.

FYL for finding out the truth behind the deception, I was a victim at one point in time. YDI for not doing your research and believing everything you hear on the internet. At least you got the proof (now) and will be more careful next time. I'm Jerry Springer, until next time take care of yourself, and each other.

so what i wanna know is did she send him the pic he requested ? heheh

ugh same happened to me when i was like 14, we talked on the phone and he sounded "hot" so i assumed he was.. turned out to be a fat and ugly dude who sits at his comp 24/7 in the dark. never chatted with random online people again. (i dont judge guys too much about appearance or body but i prefer guys who are somewhat athletic and move their ass u know, everyone has their type)

YDI for being shallow. I mean if you find the guy delightful, then why would you care about his weight? I mean yes, he's fat and ugly to you, but perhaps to him he's Fabio. My only thoughts are if you have a lot in common with this guy, then perhaps you should think about looking past the looks and finding true love. However, if he lied to you, then perhaps you should stay away from him. Fat people are known to be greedy and desperate. Heck one time I saw a fat kid steal a baby's ice cream and shoved it (no wait inhaled it) in like just one second. I never seen anything more disgusting. But yeah, fat people are greedy, selfish, evil and unclean. I mean that is why they're fat, you know?

That happened to me before the pictures I saw of him looked really great then when we met in person he had no teeth and a hunchback. The pics sure as hell didn't show that. So even with pics watch out ; )

You talked to him for weeks JUST because he was hot, and have nothing in common with him? Or you enjoy talking to him and find him interesting but will cut off your friendship because he's unattractive? I fail to see how your life is ****** either way.

YDI. Having a thing for someone online is one thing, but liking them just because they say they're hot is stupid. I don't imagine it was great conversation or anything given what he said after sending his pic.

Just to say: Op I think you are shallow. I know some of the most attractive people who say they are fat, I know some fat people who say they are beautiful. But when you talk to them, its not about how pretty they are, its about how much they have changed my life. Friends are about the people who are willing to be there for you. You have just shown this guy, whomever he is, that because of the way he looks he isn't worth your time. You talked to him because he told you "i have a six pack and amazing arms"? But continued to even before you saw a picture. So either you want to make yourself seem superior by saying you are above him or you are judgemental? Maybe you have a real reason and you are lonely/desperate/horny and wanted someone hot to talk to your friends about? Who knows. But you had a chance to maybe show some other shy human being that he is better than his circumstances. This might be me thinking there is still hope in the world. But maybe, just maybe, he was fat because people put him down and he is honestly depressed. You can't help what you look like when you are born. You need to reevaluate the worth of a human.

Good argument but irregardless is not a word.