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Wow..some of you people are closed minded assholes that have no respect.
That's what happens when you're a shallow ass cum-guzzling thundercunt
Okay, so this "HOT" guy turned out to only be "hot" on the internet and in your mind. Once you see this person's real looks you're like, "OMG. He's hideous." I got news for you. You thought he was hot. In your mind he was sexy. And then when he turns out to not be your ideal man you decide... "Ew... I've been cybering with some fat guy. This is a FML moment." You are shallow. But did you send him a picture back. Because *laughs* I'd wager it wouldn't be one he'd want to show his friends either. Because if the only romance you can get is online you must be a hideous C.H.U.D. Or else... Like you've shown everyone here... A shallow, self-centered *****. FYL? No F-his life for having actually caring enough about you to send you a picture. Ugh... Internet ho's.
So what if he's not hot? Looks honestly don't matter. You may have heard that a lot, but it's true. Go for personality, not weight/looks. YDI.
That is retarded. I don't know what fairytale world you are from, but here in the real world we (as humans) base a lot on physical attraction. So its not "shallow" to think someone is not hot and not wanting to date them, even if their personality is great. That's what we call a "friend" here in the real world.
When I grow up? Please spare me the bullshit. Think of the way nature works. Males in most species have to flaunt and look good for the ladies. Its simple survival of the fittest. The one who looks the best will attract a female and continue its genes. The same thing applies to humans, since we are animals. Yes we are more complex than any animal. We need to have a mental connection as well. Not everyone considers their partner their friend. So saying that is useless. We base a lot around physical attractions and not personality. So its completely normal for someone to not want to date someone if they don't find them attractive. If they just like their personality, then they just become friends. People should have to feel uncomfortable or settle for someone just because they don't want to be shallow. There is no such thing as shallow, we are humans and its in human nature to want someone who you find attractive.
Did I ever say that I didn't think that the people I date are my friends? No, I stated that not everyone thinks like that. It's not wrong or shallow to judge someone on there looks. Its just human nature. People just need to get over themselves and accept the fact that the world is a harsh place.
Who are you to tell anyone what is right and wrong. That's for each person to find themselves. Just because you think its wrong doesn't make it wrong. For example, It's like me saying that gays are wrong, and that people shouldn't be gay. It would be wrong in my eyes, but it would be right to someone who thinks its right.
And everyone else seriously your gonna sit her on your fat asses telling her that if the same thing happened to you that you would stay with that creeper. And obviously the guys doesn't have a great personality and she isn't being shallow if he said "Send me a picture so I can prove to my friends that your real" I mean seriously how the **** would YOU respond? And how do you know if she met the guy on a dating thing and he had a picture that wasn't him and was hott to her? And that why she was talking to him. **** you , geez everybody who comments on these things just ******* bag on the person. **** OFF
I met a guy online who isn't 'attractive' by most people's standards, but he never lied to me or said he was hot lol. He's since lost about 75 lbs and we've been happily married for 6 months. I agree it's about personality, and attraction comes with love. I probably wouldn't have stayed with him if he had lied about his looks (or anything), or if he wanted a pic to show it to his friends. Oh, and I think he's attractive, but it took some time.
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So this guy was some one you had never met or seen before... why would you just assume he was hot?!
Darwinian evolution - We look for those who appear to be fit and healthy (i.e. not overweight) because they are the mates with whom we will be able to populate the world and continue our species. Not such a bad thing in the overall scheme of the continuation of mankind.