Caught in 4K

By Gennifer - This FML is from back in 2012 but it's good stuff - United States - Hackensack

Today, I found out my fiancé has been cheating on me for the past month. The lady he has been seeing is a choreographer that was teaching him how to dance salsa for our wedding rehearsal. FML
I agree, your life sucks 36 124
You deserved it 2 697

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Michael_92 20

Well as bad as it seems right now be thankful it happened right now and not years into the marriage with kids.

That's disgusting. Cheaters are the number one thing I hate (and spiders). OP, now you have to think of a way to confront him. Be creative. You could try putting a hidden camera somewhere and force your fiancé to watch it, or catch them in the act. Your choice.

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mandahoney 0

I hope this would go without saying, but don't marry this douche. The saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater," holds true most of the time. The little light at the end of the tunnel is that you hadn't married him before you found out. So sorry. FYL.

im not sure if the woman who your (ex)fiance is cheating on you with should be referred to as a lady .. ***** sounds more like it

mandahoney 0

@ #8 (sorry, phone won't allow me to respond directly) - maybe she already knows salsa very well. As for doing it together, it's possible she works days or he is taking classes while she is wedding planning so they can have evenings to relax/do things together.

Reality_bites 14

Perphaps yes she does know salsa quite well, perphaps they do have conflicting schedules but it still bothers me that he appears to be attending the classes on his own. Im not saying that they have to everything together, its just this is an important event - their wedding - and I think that they should be approaching the classes as a couple seeing as they have decided to make a commitment to marry.

It's funny how people are saying, "Don't marry this ass!" when, as other people have pointed out, it seems like the cheater was the only one going to this class, so he would have to practice with the teacher as if she was his wife, since it wouldn't make sense to be dancing with her and be stone-faced. That being said, she would have to show emotion too, maybe more than his fiancé has, or he thought she would. If this is the case, which even if it's not, you should be going to couples counseling. The fact they made the commitment to get married means they most likely love each other, (If this isn't the case, I give you my sympathy for almost marrying someone who didn't love you) so this marriage doesn't seem like a completely lost cause, unless you don't make the effort to at least try to fix it. Well, good luck in your love life, whether it's with this guy, or someone else. :)

It too long for me to read it but it looks like there is good stuff in it

perdix 29

#97, no, there is not. It's just a bunch of rambling bullshit. I wasted a few minutes of my life trying to see a point in this jibber-jabber.

;n; But i worked really hard on it. (runs away, trips, then resumes running away.)

#121 Well now at least we now its not good xP

perdix 29

Dancers are hot! They always have the best legs! I wonder if she charges a different rate for the Salsa than she does for the Horizontal Mambo? On the bright side, wait 'til you see his mad dance skills at your wedding. There will be hip thrusts galore, way more than on DWTS! You'll be surprised how many Salsa steps require the woman to be on her knees ;)

Maybe she's also choreographing his sex moves...

Wow well at least you know what kind of person he is now before you marry him, I hope you choose not to marry him, because how do you know if she's the only one.

woolymittens 11

If there's one thing I ******* despise, it's cheaters! Karma will get him, OP.