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By Gennifer - This FML is from back in 2012 but it's good stuff - United States - Hackensack

Today, I found out my fiancé has been cheating on me for the past month. The lady he has been seeing is a choreographer that was teaching him how to dance salsa for our wedding rehearsal. FML
I agree, your life sucks 36 124
You deserved it 2 697

Top comments

Michael_92 20

Well as bad as it seems right now be thankful it happened right now and not years into the marriage with kids.

That's disgusting. Cheaters are the number one thing I hate (and spiders). OP, now you have to think of a way to confront him. Be creative. You could try putting a hidden camera somewhere and force your fiancé to watch it, or catch them in the act. Your choice.

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Aww sorry op that's horrible! always the salsa dancers hahah

xXxIracebethxXx 14

faith in humanity is lost -.- people these days.. op you deserve better anyways

**** that cheater. **** all the cheaters. OP you will find somebody much better someday...

Probably better not to **** the cheater, if you know what I mean :P

I fail to see anything funny about this #1, but anyway OP he is obviously a piece of shit so get back out there and find yourself a nice guy!

Lol, should have came to manhattan and taken group lessons. :p

It's hard to cum to Manhattan. Butt, I suppose there is no harm in trying.

Michele2luv 8

I'm a salsa dancer . . Ive never cheated a day in my life

I'd confort him about it and get the story from him first and then go from there

Do you mean confront? Because confort doesn't quite make sense.

How do you know that OP didn't find out from her fiancé?

Woah, slow down, I think we need to look at the reason he was seeing a salsa dance instructor. Was it his idea? I doubt it.

^^lol what I thought to likely bridezillas dumb idea for him to take lessons lol

Ouch, whatever you chose to do OP I hope you don't pet him get away with this lightly.

Well, I'd expect OP to do a bit more than pet her fiancé.

That's disgusting. Cheaters are the number one thing I hate (and spiders). OP, now you have to think of a way to confront him. Be creative. You could try putting a hidden camera somewhere and force your fiancé to watch it, or catch them in the act. Your choice.

Unfair to lump spiders in as number 1 thing you hate. Spiders are useful pest controllers. As for cheaters...we need bigger spiders

26 - Very true. I just hate the site of them, they just make your skin crawl. Giant genetically mutated spiders that eat cheaters? Let's do it!

wlddog 14

I can lump spiders into the group of things that go splat when I see them. I don't care how useful they are at eating bugs, they all gotta die if I see them. Not really sure if breeding them to eat human flesh is a good idea, but maybe if we could curb their tastes to eat jackasses and bitches only then that would be a little better.

boxbrandon11 20

Wait til the wedding cerimimoney and say no there so he still has to pay for it all

pinkcrayola 0

In most places I think the hidden camera thing is illegal...you can't film people without their consent.

Birdie_Sage 0

Call the wedding off and dump his cheating butt. The dancer idiot can take your leftovers.

Reality_bites 14

Just wondering why it appears only he was going to the dance classes? I mean arent you supposed to learn the dance together as a couple so you are both equally good on your wedding day, not to mention deepening your bond through a shared activity?

I'm thinking OP was getting lessons from a male instructor and her fiancé was getting lessons from the teacher in the FML.

Michael_92 20

Well as bad as it seems right now be thankful it happened right now and not years into the marriage with kids.

flashback.miss 28

I agree with 9 and the ideas to have hidden cameras for proof to show people in association with the wedding ;friends, family, etc. Good luck and my condolences.

At least you didn't marry the loser, OP. Chin up! You'll find someone who deserves you soon enough. If he cheated on you, the person he was going to marry, then he'll probably cheat on her too anyway.

That is why it's better when it's the same sex that's teaching your partner, like how Stifler taught Jim.

Unless your partner is potentially attracted to both sexes. At any rate, the problem isn't that the dance instructor was female; it's that the OP's fiance cheated. If he hadn't cheated with the dance instructor he'd have done it later, and at that point the OP would have already married the jerk.

I hope OP DOESN'T marry the jerk....but we don't know that, and maybe never will. (don't do it, OP - and make him pay for all the wedding/cancellation expenses himself!)