How bad was the weather that you couldn't leave your house to see him, but he could leave his house for you?

A few weeks back my date got canceled back because her mom was in the hospital, the next week we both had to cancel because of the act, the next week she just wanted to cancel the date, the week after that, I went on the date but she never contacted me ask that day. Point of the story, you're not the only ones, this thing is common, if her really liked you he'll understand.

Make a massive effort to schedule a new one - and I mean, be more persistent than ask once, because he might think that you're just trying to be polite and he'll politely decline, but if you keep pestering, I'm sure he'll believe that you really did have valid reasons.

Cancel due to "bad weather?" That's a somewhat lame excuse given the information. If he'd left home already I'm assuming either he was coming to pick you up or to chill at your place (if it had been the opposite and you couldn't get your car out because of snow or something, this would make more sense.) But he was willing to come out for you in the same circumstances, so that tells me the weather wasn't really bad enough to cancel! All I'm saying is I see where he is coming from. That being said, it is flu season, so hopefully he will understand and give you another chance.

Ask him out. If he's not lying through his teeth he'll jump on the chance, if he doesn't then blow him off cuz he's trying to play you.

Honestly i would assume you're making excuses as well, to the others who say he should give you another chance let me say if she is making excuses it wont work and let her be, you gotta make the move on this one op.

If he was already out then why couldn't you just hang out at your place instead of going to the movies?

Give him a *******

Go anyway. Showing your dedication would've been a sweet gesture. And maybe he would offer to make you some soup or tea.

I have had girls tell me they were "going to dinner with their dad then to the movies with him" to get out of a date, and then I see on facebook that their dad has been dead for many years. (sad, true, but still shows she is a liar.) I have had girls say they couldn't meet me because their car blew up, and then I found out from a friend at a party (a party I didnt wanna go too, because I thought I had a date with this girl) that the girl was AT the party, WITH ANOTHER GUY, and when I asked he provided a pic- and he proved she drove HER CAR there! I knew it was her car from before. Females lie. You shouldn't judge him for assuming the worst- 90% of modern millennial/gen X and gen Y women give the 10% of good women a bad name. Instead, just calmly say "I dont blame you for feeling that way man, I know there are some people out there who arent very honest. If you want, I can facetime you or just show you the prescription medicine I was given. Hopefully this will help build trust. Once I prove it, I'd appreciate having more trust in the future though." I have a high IQ, 147, and am very happy, confident, I make over $200,000 a year, I am in good shape, I have had sex with dozens of girls- I am not unconfident, I get laid easily, I can maintain a girlfriend easily, no problems with women, feel me? My point is- the stereotype of "ohhh, if a guy thinks you are lying, he must be a sinister, creepy, insecure weirdo" USED to be true like 10-15 years ago, but NOWADAYS, women are such liars, that honestly- I truthfully worry about the intelligence, sanity, or gullibility of the men who actually unquestioningly believe everything a NEW woman says. Once I KNOW a woman (or a man), I trust them pretty quickly (or I find out quickly they are lying, because I "test" new dates a couple times to ensure they are honest people. For example, if a girl makes up an excuse to flake, I usually politely request some sort of proof, and if she asks why I just explain a lot of people lie nowadays.) Sometimes women act super mad, but these women I find out are lying. Usually, the chill/cool/normal women will show me/guys in general, proof. Once I see the proof, I ease up and trust them more, and we all good. It's all gravy from then on. But honestly, because sooo many women are straight up liars and deceivers these days, you can't fault guys for not really trusting girls. The culture is going downhill, so many women f*ck a lot of men, so many women lack even basic morality, they think killing a baby in partial birth abortion is "liberating and a good choice" etc. There's no morality is my point, really, anymore with a lot of girls. Even many girls fake having it, but dont really have it. You need to test a girl to really see what her character is about, early on, and if you dont find out her real character then you wind up dating the girl who cuckolds you, leaves you and takes half your money, embarrasses you, or worse. Ive seen too much with too many guys and been lied to myself enough, to not automatically trust a girl. NOTE: If you prove yourself to a guy that you arent lying more than 3x, AND you havent been caught in a lie to him, and he STILL does not trust you? Then the problem is not you, or women, the problem is HIM- he has been too damaged to be able to see reason or trust a girl fully. However, guys like me- intelligent, but still having our sanity?- prove yourself to us 2 or 3 times with evidence when we request it, and we will trust you so much, give you so much respect, show you fairness, love, etc.