Also, if he does indeed text something that was suggested, I'm sure he paraphrased or at least agreed with it, or at least to an extent.

You're thinking of Maury, just as a bro tip.

this comment wouldve been the most liked if you had put maury

I honestly think that's right. I'm probably as nervous as the guy listed in the fml lol I totally would do the same for certain questions but not all of them.

Okay, he might not have wanted to say the wrong thing, but OP trusted HIM, not his friends, and talked to him about things that she probably only wanted /Him/ to know. So since he is talking to his friends about everything she says, it's kind of like an invasion of privacy.

She specifically said "cute" things. Like flirty, affectionate things. I highly doubt he's relaying that her mom is dying of cancer or what have you.

Doesn't matter. Their conversations are still being repeated to other people.I'd be pretty shocked if this happened to me.

Oh, like OP isn't talking about these conversations with her friends...or strangers on the internet...

Yeah I agree on that part, that her bf really wants her to think good of him, but she texts him to talk to HIM. She wants to know more about him and to see if this relationship is okay or not. She doesn't want a text that isn't written by him. That's not why she texted him.

Just imagine she says how his day was and he sends it to his friends "Hey guys she said how my day was what do I say"

Perfect parallel. You were thumbed down by cretins.

Thank you, I was hoping someone would get it.

No...

That's what the government wants you to think.

No, not everyone wants other people to see their messages. A friend of mine keeps asking me what to say to a girl he likes but I think if someone in a relationship asked I'd be a little concerned for them, unless it's a "I'm pregnant" and they say "what do I do???".

I like how you assume only girls do this. Many of my guy friends screenshot conversations that they want to show me. I, on the other hand, hardly do this.

True, it seems to be a common thing in general.

I don't think he meant just girls, but he's specifically addressing OP, who is a girl.

Trust me, no male who fits the stereotype of "normal guy" does that...

I agree. There are so many was you can mess up by text message, he likes you, and so he just wants to do this thing right. How are your face to face interactions? If you two get along well when you are together, the text messages may be pretty trivial. Don't worry about it too much OP! :)

That's pretty dumb. Why would he put that much into it if he was just using her? If she's just a placeholder, he would most likely just phone it in (no pun intended).