I'm sure the guy has seen plenty of vaginas in his career. It's not like yours is magically different just because you're related to his wife.

All she's saying is that it was awkward, so what if he's a doctor, he's family..

Well, at least he knows you were being responsible in getting a pap smear.

Hey, he's been/is going through med school, so he has to have an iota of bedside professionalism to even be allowed to observe... so it's safe to say that the only one feeling awkward at Thanksgiving dinner will be you. Don't sweat it so much. I'm sure you were the dozenth cooter he'd seen that day, anyhow.

At least your brother in law has a good job (medical student) and of course is smart and well educated, not a crazy horny hobo. This is pretty embarassing. FYL

He's a professional. Grow up.

All you had to say was, "today I was getting a pap smear," and your life would already suck.

well thats gonna be an awkward family reunion.....

How embarrassing!

That was really bad on the part of your doctor. S/he should have asked you before you were already up in the stirrups.