Foreshadowing
By strikeout - This FML is from back in 2009 but it's good stuff - United States
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wellinever
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Just maybe her boundaries are lower than you think.
Let her get a cab back. How's that for a boundary?
Boundaries=not telling you when she's coming home.
DuhthatsObvious
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I hate when guys do that. I'm Hispanic so I'm used to it from other Hispanic people or such cultures that tend to kiss friends hello and goodbye. But when a white boy for example makes a move like that when I make it obvious that I am not interested in him one bit, not only am I disgusted by I am really annoyed that anyone would force themselves on me like that, even if it's just a kiss on the cheek.
ElMundio87
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Right, so if he's from your own race it's ok, but anyone else it's disgusting? Gotta love racism.
What racism? All she said was that in different cultures kissing is ok between friends. She comes from one that it is ok. White Americans do not accept this as part of our culture, guy kisses girl on the cheek means more to us. I'm stationed in Iraq right now, and it is part of their culture. I've seen men kissing men on the cheek and walking holding hands. It means friendship to them. When I'm in America I only kiss my fiance, if I kissed a friend on the cheek I doubt she'd go for it. Re-read the post and realize she isn't saying anything racist, you are just being ignorant to other culture.
lmmmr
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Thumbs down to you, ElMundio87.
deliapearl
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if she's not interested when she gets back, move on to the next one
She wants to talk to you when she gets back = She wants you. She wants you to do more for her to let you go further. Building a shrine to her might be a nice gesture that would impress her. So would tattooing her name of your forehead -- every gal loves that! Having said that, it was really uncool to slip her the tongue when you kissed her cheek.
completely give up on anything happening with her and find someone else - it's clear that you are utterly and permanently stuck in the magic "friend zone". Sorry man - her loss.
I might be a little uncomfortable if a friend that I only liked as a friend did that. At least she wasn't rude or bitchy about it, and wasn't offended, it just obviously made her uncomfortable, and she wants to make sure it doesn't happen again, y'know? Yeah, she wants to discuss boundaries, she doesn't like you. But it could have been worse. Just move on, and stay friend with her.
machete_fml
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maybe she was joking? people often react too nervously to things like that cool down and dont run away
I think she was just being flirty.
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if u are close enough to drive her to the airport, a kiss in the cheek shouldnt be such a big of a deal. it might be a european point of view though, we kiss everyone twice when we meet them the first time. u should look for another girl in any case
... Wah? "Bitch"? "Using you"? He's NOT DATING her (yet). They are FRIENDS, or at the very least, fellow schoolmates on good terms... she's not a bitch at all. If she were a bitch, she would have screamed rape and/or never spoke to him again. If she was using him... well, no, I don't see how she was using him. I would gladly take a friend to the airport if they needed me to. Why the **** would you expect anything for a FAVOR for a FRIEND?