.....what?

That depends entirely on the person. It doesn't matter if someone calls you fat, stupid, ugly, or an asshole. If you know you're not, and you're secure enough in that knowledge to not rely on outside opinions or validation, then you can just treat that insult as any other statement you'd know to be false. They may as well say the moon is made of reindeer farts. The problems start when someone hits upon a fear. "Fat" will hurt, even when you know it's false, if you're *afraid* you're fat. In all cases, you're the only one who can change your flaws. When opinions are powerful enough to bother you, especially those of strangers, your outlook has to change in order to put yourself back in control.

Totally agree 184. I know I'm fat ugly and an asshole but calling me stupid always hits a nerve ;)

You may not be fat, but your impulse control needs work. Why give a stranger that kind of control over you?

98 - I'm pretty sure if you were in my shoes you wouldve been hurt and retaliated...as did I! Also, she got kicked out, as well, for starting an arguement. Because there were witnesses. So don't tell me one is better than the other. I'm not happy about what I did and I certainly wasn't boasting about it. I was trying to make a point that when someone calls you a name...it hurts! (especially when you're not what they called you!)

Again, I don't get it. If you know they're not right, why does their opinion matter? Obviously she touched some kind of nerve, but only you can say what.

wow this is y u shud go bak 2 skule N lern 2 rite. Oh, and you commented under the wrong FML, too. Good job!

haha anteaters are cool:D

Here in Tampa FL, it is the law that all bicycles be equipped with a bell.