Good friends

By cavallo31 - 28/06/2016 00:47 - United States

Today, I invited my friends to meet up at the park. After asking twice, I finally got the text saying to meet them there. But when I got there, I realized they had already been there for a while. As I was walking up to them, I heard, "Why did you invite him?" FML
I agree, your life sucks 11 996
You deserved it 892

Same thing different taste

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You deserve better than people who treat you like an option instead of a priority. You may want to reevaluate.

Hey OP, not to be a grammar Nazi, but I think you misspelled "asshats." I've personally never seen anyone spell it with an F before!

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I've been there and I feel you. Whether it was just the one person, or the whole group, that's extremely hurtful and uncalled for. I hope you get things sorted out and that at the very least, the one guy is no longer your friend.

Sorry op, but seriously maybe its your personality or something because there is always a reason when someone says something like that. Then again they all could be just dicks so tell them to go **** themselves and go home to do some soul searching.

I won't be a "nodding doll" and tell you that they're complete idiots. I won't pretend that the issue might lie solely with them. I always wonder how this could possibly happen, but then I met a guy who just seemed utterly clueless about his social persona - and he was really annoying. Before you blame your friends, look in the mirror and consider why they might not want to hang out with you. You deserve people who are pleased to see you, but if you're being a total douche (which some people are), this might mean you won't ever get closer to people. FYI: I've been there. I was so immature and not very nice, and my friends had to tell me. I was glad they told me, because otherwise I wouldn't have realized how uncomfortable I made them feel.

MelRose520 2

it might be hard letting "friends" go, but that's how you find better ones along the way. sorry this happened to you OP but you will eventually fall into a group that actually likes you and you will probably like even better.

Hey OP I'll try not to sound rude, but will it be possible to talk to one of them and ask why they don't wanna hang out with you? I know it's easier said than done, but I've had "friends" who can be really annoying to hang out with. I'm not saying you are, but it's the only reason I could think of that won't make them sound like douches (but maybe they are, who knows). But communication is key, I'd at least try to get their side of the story. Good luck!

Some people are *****. Surely not everyone in the group didn't want you there. I'd say to try hanging out alone with someone to see if they actually like you, if not, then just stop talking to them. Honestly, having no friends for awhile is better than sticking with a group of assholes for who knows how long.

If It had been me and as I walked up to them I heard "Why did you invite him?" I would have said "Well **** you too." As I turned around and left. Then again, you could be the bigger person, act like you didn't hear it, and hang out with them anyways to try and show them how awesome you are :)

They are not your friends!! You deserve better OP <3