sound like my husband when I talk to him sometimes. I feel like he isn't listening and I always have to treat him like a child and make him listen by talking to him like mine. I need alot of emotional support but hr isn't very good at giving it I went to my first therapy session and am going to my second one today because of this issue along with P.T.S.D. the Therapist advise us to take couples communication class together. I hope it work out for you I know how stressful it is. I know men are logical women can be too but sometimes I feel society put too Much emphasis on men being strong and have no emotions which make me feel it make some of them emotionally stunted in their growth which is really sad and make them emotionaly immature and don't know how to handle emotions like "healthy adults "

I read that as "when the rapist called us in". I don't know why.

sounds like a divorcee is in orderr (:

It sounds like he isn't even trying, hopefully he will improve over the next sessions. Since you are putting work into this I hope he does, if he doesn't then he clearly doesn't deserve you.

For a lot of men uh huh is actually a valid response. As is hmmm. They have meaning based on how they were inflected and context. A good therapy list would know this and teach you how to interpret it. Communication is a two way street. If you begin with value judgements about his communication style then you won't make progress. You have to listen too. He'll open up. It's a guy thing. Some guys, not all.

Counseling isn't ******* ebay. You don't go and purchase a new husband. You're an idiot.

Looks like he's not making any effort on his part to fix the marriage but it is the first session. If this continues in a couple of more sessions then it might be time to get a divorce.

maybe your husband's ADD/ADHD OP..

At least he went.so quit your bitching!

Do you take this woman to be your wife? ...uh huh. I can only imagine