You kept the receipt right? You could always film yourself getting the refund with Beyonce playing in the background. Use the money to buy a pool table instead - your balls will be played with more then than in a marriage anyway. On a serious note, sorry OP.

At least you knew before proposing. Sorry, OP, that sucks.

Is she going to break up with you over Snapchat? Sure hope your next girl has the same ring size or it’s a simple return..

I really hope you had the presence of mind to immediately break up with her before she could do so to you.

This is why marriage should be planned and talked about. Never a surprise. The only thing that should be a surprise is how you do it. If you DID talk and plan, your ex gf is an ass on top of being a coward. As long as you have the box, you should still be able to return your ring. They have transaction histories in store, I'm sure.

If she can break up with you by sending an indirect message on instagram then she is worthless. It is not something which helps but you dodged a bullet there.

It's alright, the engagement ring won't go bad. You can use it to propose to another girl in the future.

Send her a message that says “Be careful with what you wish for”, along with a photo of you returning the ring.

Why do people nowadays think breaking up over social media/txt is okay? Especially when they've been together for almost 4 years...you dodged a bullet op

...Um, I know I'm old as dirt, but the tax man and I thought "single" meant "not married". I considered myself "single" until after the ceremony, when I became "married." I considered myself "available" when I didn't have a steady beau, "unavailable" when I did, and "engaged" once hubby asked. But until "I pronounce you man and wife," I was "single."