Love, Intimacy, Weird and Awkward: Kinkshaming

Kinkshaming

By no way! - 29/08/2021 17:01

Today, my funny, handsome, intelligent, caring, all around awesome boyfriend and I broke up. He introduced me to his fetish and wanted me to participate. His fetish? Dressing, talking, and acting like a baby. He wanted us to both wear diapers and pretend to be babies together. Fuck that noise. FML

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By Maria39018 - 01/08/2009 18:17 - United States

Today, my boyfriend and I decided to be totally honest with each other. We even told some of our deepest, darkest secrets, in hopes of strengthening our relationship. He told me he had a diaper fetish, and would love to see me in one. There goes my sex life. FML

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By honey, no boo-boo - 12/11/2014 17:55 - United States

Today, my boyfriend threatened to break up with me if I don't satisfy his "needs." By "needs", he means me wearing a diaper during foreplay. FML

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Is it a fetish or just gross?

By Anonymous - 05/12/2022 10:00

Today, after finally moving in with my boyfriend of 3 years, he introduced me to his fetish. Wearing his underwear for 5 days straight, then wearing them as a hat on the weekends. FML

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Weirded out

By Anonymous - 29/09/2021 02:01

Today, my girlfriend told me she is breaking up with me for my friend, because she likes people with diaper fetishes. I had no clue either of them liked that stuff. FML

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Good one, mate

By Anonymous - 21/11/2015 12:44 - United Kingdom - Cardiff

Today, I've spent nearly three weeks indulging my boyfriend's weird fetish, where he wears a hockey mask and I call him Jason. He just confessed it isn't really a fetish for him and that was just fucking with me. He's already told all his friends. I'm humiliated. FML

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By grannygirlfriend - 06/12/2011 17:13 - United States

Today, my boyfriend admitted the reason he was dating me was because he has a fetish for grandmothers and apparently I look, smell, and act like one. FML

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Cut it out

By uhhggggg - 02/01/2010 17:16 - France

Today, I was trying to be dirty with my fiancé. He got really into the roleplaying and wouldn't stop pretending to be a cop for hours. Mood officially killed. FML

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That's a hard no from me, dawg

By soontobesingle - 19/03/2013 11:30 - United States - Chicago

Today, I found out that my gorgeous, smart, perfect new boyfriend has an unusual fetish. It doesn't involve me at all actually. Just a Labrador. This is probably a deal breaker. FML

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Woof woof

By kjdhfakjs - 20/05/2010 18:32 - United States

Today, while having sex with my boyfriend, he started pretending he was a dog. This included barking, licking my face, and scratching his ears. FML

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By lollipopp56 - 26/03/2009 06:09 - Canada

Today, I wanted to surprise my boyfriend by dressing up in sexy lingerie. When I went to answer the door he was standing there with a shocked expression, his friends parked in the driveway had the same expression as well. He came to break up with me. He told me after we had sex. FML

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QueenSaru 28

Monday 30 August 2021 4:24

Yeah that fetish actually doesn't usually ever have sexual connotations. So... did you break up just because he asked for it? Or because he wouldn't take no for an answer? Just asking doesn't seem like a break-uppable offense, because lets be honest, no one is 100% compatible and it's okay to not want to engage in something that the other person has an interest in. I hope you at least had a conversation with him and attempted a compromise (maybe days where you 'spoil' him by taking care of him, making him his favourite meals, cuddling time etc) rather than just kicking him to the curb for being comfortable enough to bring this up to you.

RichardPencil 30

Sunday 29 August 2021 17:32

When something seems too good to be true... Of course, you throwing a temper tantrum over this probably turned him on intensely.

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RichardPencil 30

Sunday 29 August 2021 17:32

When something seems too good to be true... Of course, you throwing a temper tantrum over this probably turned him on intensely.

fatherof4 4

Sunday 29 August 2021 18:26

Wow not my kink but rocks and glass houses

Ellimac21 14

Sunday 29 August 2021 20:47

Yuck... Nope nope nope... THIS is one of the fetish I'll never understand. Like, how the heck do you find babies sexually attractive ? Seriously that's twisted.

Charlie Given 26

Monday 30 August 2021 2:19

actually that particular fetish has nothing to do with sex it's about someone receiving a lot of affection and attention and cuddling like a mother to a baby.

Charlie Given 26

Monday 30 August 2021 2:23

It may seem like a bizarre fetish but it's actually one of the most harmless ones out there. it's about someone receiving direct personal attention , affection ,cuddling and sympathy. Like how a parent would treat a baby. Your former BF probably suffers from a lack of motherly attention as a child and was hoping to get that missing female affection from you.

ChipBoundary 9

Monday 30 August 2021 5:34

Yeah, no. People that are into this type of thing have serious mental health problems, and should never be indulged. It does a lot of harm to them and the people they subject to it. Mental illness should be accepted, helped, and treated. Not embraced, encouraged, and engaged. This is not a case of mommy didn't love me enough, this is genuine mental illness.

mayaklast 12

Tuesday 31 August 2021 18:49

Your explanation makes sense, but while I know nothing about that particular fetish, the way the FML describes it sounds self-defeating to me: I get how playing a baby while your partner plays the parent could be a comfort / affection need thing, but she says her boyfriend wanted them to roleplay babies together while wearing diapers... if the two of them are roleplaying babies and there is no parental figure in the equation, I just don't get where the script is going. But maybe that's just me? ^^

QueenSaru 28

Monday 30 August 2021 4:24

raven_of_azarath 34

Monday 30 August 2021 4:44

Sounds like you might have dated my ex. As others have said, it’s really a harmless thing that’s been developed due to trauma and “mommy issues” (for lack of a better term).