Let down

By Anonymous - 14/05/2014 15:54 - Canada - Sherwood Park

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Today, my boyfriend saw my boobs for the first time. His reaction was, "Well that's... disappointing". FML
I agree, your life sucks 59 586
You deserved it 7 387

Same thing different taste

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How could boobies possibly be disappointing?

fishstick557 14

A real boyfriend would care for who you are and not your body ultimately it's up to you to decide whether to keep him or move on

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Breast assured, I'm sure he was just joking

Sorry to hear that OP. You can show me if you want, I'm sure I wouldn't give the same reaction.

I think he is just a picky douche. I'll take a look :)

What a shallow asshole. There are other guys out there that will love your breasts. Date one of those guys.

Playing devil's advocate here; if you happen to have a super padded bra or stuff them, you can't really blame him for false advertisement.

CowTippingDwarfs 21

I agree, I saw a bra that looked like it had an inch of padding. I have asked my guy friends if they would be mad or upset if a girl wore one of these and the answer I've gotten out of all of them is yes.

What about the large breasted/top heavy women that remove their bras and their breasts sag? Is that bra also false advertisement because they're not as perky as the bra makes them appear?

51: I don't quite think that those two are on an equal level, at least in the eyes of most men. Men tend to be more obsessed with size than other aspects. Large boobs that sag are still large boobs. Seemingly large boobs that turn out to be way smaller, are way smaller boobs. Either way, most guys will be perfectly happy with it, since no matter what version you're looking at, boobs are awesome. There are those few, however, who do blurt out stupid stuff without thinking, or who simply are too picky about boobs.

Yeah. If OP stuffed her bra, or wore a push-up or a padded bra, than hey boyfriend was expecting something else. Not saying she did, but the fact that he was disappointed means to me that he was led to believe that her boobs were different than they turned out to be without the bra.

50- do you really think it's okay for guys to get mad because a girl wears a padded bra? A girl can do whatever she wants with her appearance. Christ, boob size shouldn't matter *that* much.

Well obviously you don't look at bras often because there are oush ups that only boost what you've already got.

One quick thing... what if she never wore a bra in the first place? Maybe they are younger and he had never seen real ones. There are many reasons this could be his reaction. Except he should have kept his mouth shut.

nixieduck 9

Maybe if guys like OP's boyfriend weren't so concerned about how big their significant others breasts are then women wouldn't feel the need to push them up. Girls with small boobs usually feel super insecure.

#152, yes they do :( And it's sad. Small breasts are exactly what I like... But girls with small breasts don't believe it, because the media has, for years, told them that they're no-good.

I had actually had the same thought of how do we know she doesn't wear some sort of heavily padded bra? I have to agree with 161, little is the way to go, large breasts really aren't attractive, in my opinion.

#24 playing Devil's advocate here but saying you're acting Devil's advocate doesn't make your comment okay. Also I bet you're one of those guys who thinks a woman not shaving is "unnatural" then throw hissy fits when girls "falsely advertise" by wearing a certain bra. Girls can wear whatever they want and that would not make OP's BF's comment any less douchey.

I mean your comment would be less awful if instead of calling it "false advertisement" you actually said something along the lines of "it's ok to be who you really are! Screw those who think otherwise" because the victim here is not the poor menz who are "falsely advertised to" in your words.

sammyjanette 17

I don't get girls like you, OP. He clearly doesn't respect you, or your feelings, so why are you staying (you didn't indicate otherwise)? Get some self-respect, and try to find a guy more interested in YOU than in the size of your breasts, and with at least enough tact to not comment negatively on your body.

There is nothing more to say. He is a dick :/

lucky me... the exact opposite happened when I saw my gf's for the first time

Attacksloth 33

Did he expect them to grow 5x when you took your shirt off?

...and the OP's small boobs grew three sizes that day.