lol

^ you win, because you have Fred FredBurger as you're dp.

He didn't necessarily cheat, I agree with the fact it was the memory of someone else but it could have been from before he met her, drink can really messes up your perception of time. Or....it could be a memory of the two of them but from later on in their relationship. I'm just trying to add a positive spin hehe

Monnanon is correct, he didn't necessarily cheat. It is also true that he could have done, but he didn't necessarily. Also, GoodLooking Geese, you say he shouldn't drink, this means that you either are anti-alcohol entirely or you believe that he's an alcoholic. The former is personal preference per person. And we don't have enough information to know the latter, as for all we know he only gets very, very drunk every so often. And it's more probable that something like this would've occured before and therefore the OP would have made him clean up his act before something on this scale happened. Either way the OP needs to have a very serious talk with him about this. Even if it's just to teach him to keep certain stories to himself or if it's to find out if this night was with her or another woman (and if it was whether or not this was before or after they started dating), or if it's to try and find out if he does have a problem.

I've got no problem with people drinking because they enjoy the taste; for me, drinking is something that just comes with being a foodie. ;) But I don't understand why people would get smashed on their wedding day. It's something you're going to want to remember. Besides, who wants liquor dick on his wedding night?!