"Nice guy"

By missseloit3 - 13/03/2018 19:00

Today, I met a nice guy who wanted to chat. I didn't want to be the bitchy type and throw him the "I have a boyfriend" line right away, so I conversed with him. When he asked was I single I, of course, said no. He yelled at me and made a huge scene about me leading him on. FML
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Chazzster 28

Tough call - People are not always clear on their intentions. I do not think OP did anything wrong. Sometimes people are just friendly and like talking to another person. Sometimes it’s only about looking for a potential dating partner. The difference in the signs can be subtle at times. I think the guy has to be a complete jerk to react that way - Be thankful you were not on a date with such a piece of work.

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Beefy_McQueefy 6

A lot of men feel like we owe them something. Tell them you have a boyfriend right off the bat? ''God, what's your problem, I was just saying hello!'' Wait a few minutes? ''You led me on!'' Either way, they're getting a 'no' and there's no good time to say that if they feel entitled

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bigdaddyeric 35

**** Teaser is what you are...

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Rabite 28

And all those women actually think they are like real persons. What a crazy thought!!

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nasdad 2

well i want to say thanks as i am the shy type so he was more of a reactive type id say and probably hasn't had much luck with girls same as me but i wouldn't mind just being friends with a girls in fact id prefer female friends not that i have much friends or good ones really but from how shy i am its hard for me to talk to girls so i normally just ask for phone number and than we could text for a bit which would eventually calm the few times I've found courage i got told they had a boyfriend and that was it in the back of my head I'm like what about friends but it did hurt a bit and some girls just want that one relationship i know but one of the girls smiled at me and i had a good feeling but nope also i am wheelchair bound i think what would be best in situation similar to yours it would be best to state at the beginning that you have a bf but offer to be friends

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Nadine 21

Punctuation is important buddy, this comment was super hard to get through.

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Rabite 28

There are worlds between smiling and chatting a bit and offering to be friends. Do you only smile and chat with people you want to be in a relationship with?

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Selene1090 26

We get yelled at for letting them know first thing we have a boyfriend, we get yelled at for "leading them on" when we don't tell them right away. We get yelled at for the "friend zone". Some guys need to learn to deal with the fact that not all woman want to sleep with them.

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SwordSlashBlade 13

Why does a guy think just because a girl is talking to him that she is leading him on? Did his mother never speak with him?

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WeirdUS 29

I get the feeling most guys like this aren't going to have a long convo with a woman unless a lawyer is present.

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LAUGHINGKOMODO 25

The only time you become the bitchy type is when 1) you tell him that you have a boyfriend before hearing what he has to say and 2) when you tell him that you got a boyfriend when you actually don't. It's better to just tell a dude that you're not interested and you're sorry.

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withered 30

People have no obligation to disclose their relationship status to random creepy douchebags. People lie about not being single because some people are too stupid to understand a simple no.

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Rabite 28

They are not too stupid to understand a no. They just have more respect for the boyfriends and none for the women they are approaching.

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darkchaosforces 12

r/niceguys much?

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itssnotfunny 24

Yeah I never get this. Because whenever I tell them I have a bf right away then they twist it around to be like "wtf are you talking about, I was just trying to have a friendly conversation with you?" But if you don't then they twist it around to say you lead them on. Lmao, no matter what, it's just our fault. Can't win haha

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mssileas 25

You cannot ever win this game. So **** the game, tell them right away when you notice flirty intentions that you have a partner and if they pretend that they weren't interested in the first place, shrug and let them go their way. They already spend enough time thinking their dick is the center of the universe, no need for you to feed that.

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withered 30

Ah, the "nice guys". Selfish idiots with zero emotional intelligence, usually without good looks and zero personality that think people (the attractive ones only, ofc) should line up to have sex with them because they pretend to be nice.

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