No, if he did that, he'd tell you boring stories about kung fu fighting, and how those cats are fast as lightning. Then, he'd prattle on about how it's a little bit frightening but they do it with expert timing. Once you think it's over, he'll drone on with some vaguely racist stories about Billy Chin and Sammy Chung...

You told him to do something, he did it, you’re mad him for it. What are you, my ex-wife?

If you are this bad as a girlfriend, I would hate to be anywhere near you as a wife. TTRPG communities are full of intelligent, creative, happy social people who have fun without the drugs or other vices. If you want a jock, go date the football team.

So what you’re saying is “I just stopped in to say to everyone I am an asshole who doesn’t deserve my BF or anyone, because I like to control people and tell them how to have fun and shame them because they like things I might not.” Grow up. Love your BF and his quirks, or do yourself and everyone else a favor and stop dating until you can be a healthy supportive partner.

FHL

Boyfriend's next quest is to get rid of a shrieking hag.

YDI for making him feel bad for his choice of hobby. Why do you consider martial arts "more sensible"?

It's a fun, although admittedly pretty expensive hobby. But what tf is your problem???