But she CAN sit on you by being fat. Be very careful OP.

Yes but OP can run while the fat bitch clearly can't, unless she curls into a ball and rolls down like a falling boulder..

@27 I don't know about you, but when someone threatens me with legal action (or illegal action), I consider the bridge burned.

I'm sorry, you're saying you'd go to a friend or family members wedding, them try and tell them which photos of their wedding are allowed to be shown and where?! No, being photographed is to be expected at a wedding, either suck it up or don't go.

@27 untag yourself and deal with it. Or are you so self obsessed that you think that anyone other than you gives a shit what you look like in the background of someone else's photo?

I would understand if it was a candid shot that was embarrassing, but these are professional pictures. There is a difference between being upset someone put an ugly shot you didn't offer to pose for, but... really? When we did wedding pictures for my sister, it took two hours. During any point during the pictures the mother-in-law could have said, "I don't want to be in the pictures because I feel fat." You would think if she was that sensitive she would not have posed in them at all. Because really, you know with social media someone is going to post their wedding pictures.

@ 36 This is the mother of her husband. Someone she is going to have to deal with as long as she is married. So unless she's planning on divorcing her husband anytime soon. It's best to forgive & forget especially when it comes to family. People say things they don't mean when they are hurt, angry, & humiliated. I feel really sorry for every one around if you're seriously this unforgiving. I hope for your own family's sake that you aren't and that if any of them are still talking to you you're willing to forgive them the minor slights they don't really mean.

@95 The golden rule: Treat others how you would want others to treat you. Given that rule, I must assume that how people treat me is how they want me to treat them. I am kind by default, right up until someone is unkind to me. Yes I can forgive, but I am not going to go out of my way to befriend someone who insists on being my enemy. As for the OP's husband, if he took the traditional vows then he vowed to forsake all others for the OP. "All others" includes his mother. I would argue that if the mother-in-law wants to foster a good relationship then she needs to be the one to mend the bridge, because she is the one who burned it in the first place.

@ 64 I agree with you totally as long as she was warned that they were going to be posted to Facebook beforehand. There is a huge difference between appearing in pictures that go in some album that sits on a shelf somewhere and is only pulled out on special occasions versus being posted on Facebook for the whole world to see 24/7.

@98 It is 2013. It should be expected that any life event pictures (read: wedding photos) are going to end up on some form of social media.

@97 I realize that I made an unintentional assumption regarding the gender of the OP in my previous comment. My statement regarding the wedding vows should have referenced the OP's spouse, not husband.

@ 101 That's fine for someone of the of the current and future generations. It's not fair to expect someone from an earlier generation who didn't grow up with Facebook and our current level of technology to automatically make that assumption. Now I don't know how old OP's mother-in-law is but there's a good chance this applies to her.

@108 People in the previous generations haven't been living in caves for the last twenty years. Some people might not know their way around a computer, but it is fair to say that most people alive today probably at least know of the existence of the Internet. Clearly the mother-in-law in question knows about Facebook, because she saw the pictures there. We can infer from that information that she must either have a Facebook account herself, or she is in close contact with someone who does. In either case, she should assume that life event pictures like the OP's wedding photos are going to be posted there.

Not to mention that she'll likely eat everything at said functions while she bitches :p

And complain about the lack of diet soda to go with said meals (after she has gone through the first gallon you had).