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By Anonymous - 13/09/2024 06:11 - Belgium

Today, I found out why my ex of three years started an argument with me that quickly lead to our break-up. He said he would be talking to people of a different race to make life "easier." I should've seen the fact that he dislikes our own race from prior conversations. He ended up getting into a relationship two months later. FML
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nm1545 tells us more.

nm1545 9

Op here – For some context: we’re both black. During the relationship he would mention how he didn’t like when black women would do certain things or just talk down on things I did and say “This is why you shouldn’t date black women/should date this instead.” When meeting right before our breakup he mentioned that he would probably be dating a Hispanic or white woman next because it would be easier. I don’t care what race he dates, do you! I just don’t respect him saying he thinks certain demographics are less aggressive when there’s all types of personalities in any race. I say this because when we first got together he told me his ex wasn’t black and ended up stabbing him. As far as the breakup - I believe he was talking to her before we broke up. They got together quickly after we called it quits and it surprised me.

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Thaylok 17

As messed up as that is. You are likely in a better place now through not being tied to someone who spreads hate (of any race). This I a great movement FML, move on and leave his hate filled self behind.

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Thaylok 17

As messed up as that is. You are likely in a better place now through not being tied to someone who spreads hate (of any race). This I a great movement FML, move on and leave his hate filled self behind.

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Earl_KarmasBitch 34

Definitely. The question is who dodged the bullet. Cause maybe he's the racist or maybe OP regards talking to anyone of a different race as hating your own race. It's a little hard to tell from the post as it's ambiguous.

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nm1545 9

Op here – For some context: we’re both black. During the relationship he would mention how he didn’t like when black women would do certain things or just talk down on things I did and say “This is why you shouldn’t date black women/should date this instead.” When meeting right before our breakup he mentioned that he would probably be dating a Hispanic or white woman next because it would be easier. I don’t care what race he dates, do you! I just don’t respect him saying he thinks certain demographics are less aggressive when there’s all types of personalities in any race. I say this because when we first got together he told me his ex wasn’t black and ended up stabbing him. As far as the breakup - I believe he was talking to her before we broke up. They got together quickly after we called it quits and it surprised me.

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GoogieWithers 22

Your ex obviously has preconceived notions about race and personality. You deserve someone who gets to know you as a person.

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