Police protected wedding

By Tiana - 14/03/2022 02:00

Today, my stepfather currently has a restraining order of 1 Km because he kept on stalking me and my fiancée. I'm getting married in a week and I just found out that my mother invited him. I need to think fast on how to stop this scumbag from showing up. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 036
You deserved it 82

Same thing different taste

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let him show up and then have him arrested for violation of the restraining order

see if you can hire some off duty police as security. as soon as he shows up they have the authority to arrest him

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let him show up and then have him arrested for violation of the restraining order

Not exactly the best thing to happen at a wedding though is it?

What’s a better wedding gift than seeing the scum bag step dad put in the back of a cop car though?

see if you can hire some off duty police as security. as soon as he shows up they have the authority to arrest him

Sounds like it’s time to 1) disinvite your mom as well, 2) call the cops and inform them stepdad is going to violate his restraining order.

firstly, only you are allowed to give permission to come with the order, and even then it is not a smart idea for him since he needs proof. And letting the cops know that someone else told him he could, will most likely lead to them following up and letting him know that he would still be in breach. having a cop at the event would be smart, since this situation can be handled by them simply turning him away and letting him know whoever invited him should not have done so. Don't worry op this SHOULD be able to be handled without a big scene.

It’s your wedding, not your mother’s. Uninvited him and let her know she will be uninvited if she doesn’t respect your wishes.

kitten79TX 5

uh. tell your mom if he shows up you'll call the cops and have him arrested