Resentful

By Anonymous - 20/01/2016 12:30 - United States - Redding

Today, nine years on, my dad still hates my husband for "ruining" my life by getting me pregnant in my late twenties. FML
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eagleriverjohn 24

I think he's just trying to find an excuse to hate on your husband. A lot of dads get emotional when their little girls are taken by a man

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PsychoticHippie 11

That sucks. Stand up to your dad and just say "deal with it. It's my life, not yours."

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LyricaSilvan 29

Your dad seems to be looking for a reason to be angry.

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itwasntme14 19

I think people forget how old their kids really are sometimes. My wife's grandmother freaked out and said we were too young to have a second kid (two years after our first) when we are both in our mid-twenties with good careers. Good luck and hopefully our dad gets over it.

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SexyQueen0905 24

Please tell me he doesn't also take it out on the grandson/daughter.

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justanormalone 16

No matter how your dad precieves it, your child is your bundle of joy and that's what matters. Have a talk with the old man and soon things will be okay.

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kelizsaiz 4

Parents do have a hard time with their children growing up. Decades ago I worked in a flower shop a friend of my father's came in to start planning her daughter's wedding. as we were chatting she recognized me & freaked out saying I was too young to be married with a 2 yr old son.... I was 24. hope things get better

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Snaek 10

To be honest, 24 IS too young to be married *and* to have a kid too

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jvanevery 19

she probably hadn't seen you since you were 16 and had trouble figuring out how old you might be

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LoverWordsFood 27

I know that exact same feeling but it's gotten worse moving back into town for a bit while my husband and I build up our financial foundation to buy a house so we can move onto a new chapter in our life. Both his and my parents live in the area and we're always bombarded by family matters more so then when we were living 3 hours away. My father wants me to divorce my husband, move back in and basically stay until I find someone successful in life or just live with them forever. No big deal, since apperently 6 years of marriage and multiple different struggles mean nothing to him. It's basically put a strain on myself right now when I don't need the added stress with other things going on in life. I want to say it'll get better, but each father is different with their own views in life and how they've gotten through. Hopefully he'll wake up one day and see what's around him instead of just dragging the hate for your husband. I just don't understand the stupid bullshit.

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shittykittymeow 11

**** him op. As long as you and hubby are happy that's all that matters. Congrats on the good news!!!!

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ACCOUNTKILLER 18

isn't that why people get married though? :/

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pacman490 21

Apparently he's never met a teenager whose life has actually gotten "ruined" by a baby

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duduv2 20

I feel for you i have the same thing with my father in law it's been almost 3 years and he hates me as if I'm Hitler reincarnated p.s I'm Jewish lol good luck OP

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