Slumber off

By mean mommy - 16/07/2019 12:30

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Today, I was hosting a slumber party for my daughter, but I ended it abruptly and demanded that every child be picked up. Several pissed off parents and a sobbing daughter later, I’m the most hated. I made them leave after two of the girls bragged about losing their virginity. They’re 12. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 691
You deserved it 2 239

Same thing different taste

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So you punished everyone for something two 12-year-olds may or may not have done? They could a) be lying and b) even if they're not, that's a cue to talk to their parents about your rightful concerns. 12-year-olds who brag about having sex just do so because they've been taught by all of society and media that men sexually desiring them is their permission to exist and the ultimate goal to follow and in some cases the only kind of affection they receive. That's sad enough, but at least you realistically taught the girls that ALL of them will get punished because you disagree with SOME of them and how they think they need to express sexuality. Instead of taking the opportunity to talk to your kid and what she thinks about their behavior and her own self-worth.

as long as it wasn't your daughter, I would have left it go, then quietly mentioned it to the girls parents later

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LostSoul 19

When I was that age, girls who bragged about were usually being sexually abused. They don't usually know how else to Express it. There is a lot of shame and fear associated with it. God forbid these girls are. You just made it so they will never open up about it. You being a prude about sex could have possibly made it so these kids keep getting hurt. I have also volunteered in the school system. Things have not changed all that much when it comes to sexual abuse and how kids react to it.

Well, congratulations, you have now given your daughter a great incentive to lose her virginity in order to: a) get back at you for humiliating her publicly and b) repair the damage to her street cred. Seriously, the best way to protect your daughter is to give her the confidence to talk to you about stuff and this sure as heck is not the way to achieve that.

minkyrose 1

You win. You're a giant cow, and your daughter and her friends are traumatized from your behavior. Way to react as if a sexual encounter is akin to having Ebola. seriously, you should feel ashamed, and some formal apologies are necessary. Also, this is what you should be discussing with your therapist. A better life can be yours too.

Well those two need to get back on the street and start slutting it up again.😂😂😂

Ok but if they were all boys I doubt you would have batted an eye.

What did you expect would happen? That they would get their virginity back when you sent them home?

LadyRen 20

Should have talked to the parents privately and had a discussion with your daughter later. Instead you overreacted, embarrassed her, made her friends families angry at your family.... Now she’ could become afraid to share anything or ask questions because of your actions. You’ve taught her talking about sex is bad and will cause you to get very angry and punish her! She very well could be bullied and lose friends since know it’s know that her mom will overreact and send everyone home. I can talk about sex now as I’m older because my parents had good discussions about things with me instead of freaking out and pretty much banning the subject.

I'm glad you taught your child that she can't come to you with personal problems because you fly of the handle.

what the hell? do you think sending everyone home and humiliating your daughter was going to help? way to over react. you found like a really bad parent. ydi

I am honestly shocked by the comments on here. Does no one realize that this could be statutory rape. 12 is very young and depending on how young the other parties were that is considered reportable to the authorities. These are children not adults!

How does kicking everyone out help? She could have contacted the parents, CPS, and not humiliate her daughter.

They bragged about losing it. Yes it could be statutory rape however they did brag about it. Mom went beserk. Notify the parents of all involved instead of going crazy like she did...